Theoretical situation:
You are upset at problems at home, so upset that you are retching your guts out at work. You lock yourself in the bathroom, but everyone can still hear you being violently ill.
When you come out, three of your coworkers pretend that they didn't hear anything, act like you are fine, nothing happened. The fourth takes a couple of mints and puts them on your desk, just to help you get the bad taste out of your mouth.
Which do you prefer? Which makes it easiest? Would you rather that your coworkers help keep your dignity intact by not ignoring it? Or do you prefer that your coworkers try to make it easier, even if that takes your dignity down a notch?
I don't know how to interact with people. :x I never know which is the right thing to do. I left him mints.