man you guys must smell blood or something i'm just trying to help this guy out with the info he provided. it's clear this guy is poor at decision making if he is asking people for advice on something such as to what relic to make so in honesty he's probably not listen to anyone with the best argument.
now that before i start, this is all based on many conclusions I have already come to about the op. here was the method behind my madness...
he obviously wants to get some big *** points ah/server point while still having a useful weapon. i wont argue that an oat twice polearm is better or that any other non-relic/emp/mythic as it is only going to be slightly better at that.
i'm going to assume mythics are out of the question because it's not something you can just throw money at, therefore it's gonna leave emps and relics. it's clear he wants big *** relic points so now it's just up to which one to do.
looking at his job levels, he's got war, mnk, whm, sam, nin, drg, thf, and smn. he is too impatient to think of something he wants so i'm assuming he is not gonna wanna waste the time leveling another job as well.
he's already mentioned having ukon and thinking of getting masa and kannagi. so that means he'd need something to sport for his whm, mnk, drg, thf, or smn.
a relic for a whm or smn would be a poor choice and more sad than big *** so really he only has mnk, thf, and drg to choose from
mnk emp is much better for dd than the relic so that leaves that out of the equation.
that just leaves thf and drg. since the drg relic is much bigger and is much less common, the gungnir will be the best relic for him as it will provide him with the most big *** points for his server.