Spiders don't bother me.. That's not to say I just let them crawl on me, but if I spot a spider up on the wall, I don't bother to get up and kill it.. Well unless my wife spots it and is like "OMG KILL IT! KILL IT!"
Spiders ignore me and I ignore them, we have a good thing going. But they don't get special treatment.. If they crawl on me they're taken care of the same way if any bug crawls on me.. It gets killed, not because I'm afraid, just for the annoyance of crawling on me.