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 Quetzalcoatl.Xueye
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2011-08-15 21:25:40
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Whatever. Let the adults do as they please, whatever it is.

I'm honestly more worried about Angel. She was sick, and then suddenly gone. I hope she's not dead or something.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:25:46
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Where the hell has Krizz been lately?!?
You act like you don't know lol...

I didn't think he would be gone for two weeks. LOL!
I honestly thought she was moving there the way they talked.
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By Bahamut.Nixak 2011-08-15 21:25:53
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
so yeah... something happened with a buddy of mine and he asks me is it still cheating if you're drunk? or is it as bad? and stuff like that... so AH people what do you think?

Cheating is cheating. Being drunk is just a very bad excuse, nothing more.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2011-08-15 21:26:03
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
so yeah... something happened with a buddy of mine and he asks me is it still cheating if you're drunk? or is it as bad? and stuff like that... so AH people what do you think?

Still cheating!
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-15 21:26:48
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Quetzalcoatl.Xueye said: »
Whatever. Let the adults do as they please, whatever it is.

I'm honestly more worried about Angel. She was sick, and then suddenly gone. I hope she's not dead or something.
shes still alive lol
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2011-08-15 21:27:05
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Well. There's one condition I'd say where he wasn't cheating...

Did someone slip him something?
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By Hades.Cheyne 2011-08-15 21:27:36
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Sectum!

Story nao.

And hi.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2011-08-15 21:27:38
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
I have to give you credit for the avi Zahrah... Sunny is one of my favs.

Right?!?

/high five

I hope I don't get in trouble for it though. :/
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By slipispsycho 2011-08-15 21:28:01
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Diabolos.Neclord said: »
They're rating eachother till they reach their day limit.
Hilarious.

Also, still cheating. Getting high/drunk just lets you do things you wanted to do but your conscience or good sense wouldn't let you.. It doesn't make you do anything. It's true you can lose control, but that's what your conscience/good sense is for, to give you control. It's not as if someone else is possessing your body when you're inebriated, it's still you.
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By Asura.Ludoggy 2011-08-15 21:28:13
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
I hope I don't get in trouble for it though. :/
you wont get in trouble >.>
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2011-08-15 21:28:26
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Hades.Cheyne said: »
Sectum!

Story nao.

And hi.

...

oh.

***.

I forgot to finish that.
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By Valefor.Annikahansen 2011-08-15 21:29:18
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soooo true...
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:30:18
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Well he got cheated on... She came to him and told him and such and he said she was super apologetic... So right now I think he's looking for a way to forgive her (because hes in love with her and such and supposedly she with him) but I'm having a hard time telling him it will be ok. Something like that rarely goes away and such... will she cheat again? Will he throw that in her face when they fight? where's the trust and so on...
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2011-08-15 21:31:23
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How long has transcribed? Was this an immediate "Oh my god heat of the moment, this just happened 20 minutes ago"? Or "three weeks ago I did this and I'm saying it now because it eats away at me that I did that" or what?
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By slipispsycho 2011-08-15 21:31:42
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Well he got cheated on... She came to him and told him and such and he said she was super apologetic... So right now I think he's looking for a way to forgive her (because hes in love with her and such and supposedly she with him) but I'm having a hard time telling him it will be ok. Something like that rarely goes away and such... will she cheat again? Will he throw that in her face when they fight? where's the trust and so on...
It's not impossible to work out, but it rarely does.. Even if she won't do it again, and he forgives her, it's still going to be brought up for years in heated arguments. As far as I know, a good chunk of trust is lost forever as well..
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By Hades.Cheyne 2011-08-15 21:31:51
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Pretty much how I live my life Anni. |:



And bad Sectum!

/scold.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:32:15
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I think a couple of days.
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-15 21:32:21
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trust ruined foreverrrr
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By Diabolos.Neclord 2011-08-15 21:32:41
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Well he got cheated on... She came to him and told him and such and he said she was super apologetic... So right now I think he's looking for a way to forgive her (because hes in love with her and such and supposedly she with him) but I'm having a hard time telling him it will be ok. Something like that rarely goes away and such... will she cheat again? Will he throw that in her face when they fight? where's the trust and so on...
Was here excuse the same as his would be?
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:32:54
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
I have to give you credit for the avi Zahrah... Sunny is one of my favs.

Right?!?

/high five

I hope I don't get in trouble for it though. :/
It stays or I begin plotting!
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:33:32
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Diabolos.Neclord said: »
Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Well he got cheated on... She came to him and told him and such and he said she was super apologetic... So right now I think he's looking for a way to forgive her (because hes in love with her and such and supposedly she with him) but I'm having a hard time telling him it will be ok. Something like that rarely goes away and such... will she cheat again? Will he throw that in her face when they fight? where's the trust and so on...
Was here excuse the same as his would be?
Idk... as far as I'm aware he has never cheated on her.
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By Odin.Liela 2011-08-15 21:33:35
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It's probably going to be extremely difficult for him to ever trust her again. But if he thinks they have a chance to mend it, well, that's their choice and no one else can really make it for them. :-(
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:34:05
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Asura.Chuuuuu said: »
trust ruined foreverrrr
That's where my mind goes.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-08-15 21:35:01
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Odin.Liela said: »
It's probably going to be extremely difficult for him to ever trust her again. But if he thinks they have a chance to mend it, well, that's their choice and no one else can really make it for them. :-(
True, my whole thing in it is he's coming to me looking for some advice and I'm having a hard time trying to tell him what he wants to hear.
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By Asura.Ludoggy 2011-08-15 21:35:34
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I remember reading some article where cheating can be good for a relationship...
then I stopped reading and played a game.
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By slipispsycho 2011-08-15 21:38:11
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Odin.Liela said: »
It's probably going to be extremely difficult for him to ever trust her again. But if he thinks they have a chance to mend it, well, that's their choice and no one else can really make it for them. :-(
True, my whole thing in it is he's coming to me looking for some advice and I'm having a hard time trying to tell him what he wants to hear.
I've been on both sides of the fence.. It is possible to get passed it, and the anger/sadness/lack of trust does subside, but not for quite a while.. This isn't something that's going to go away in a month or two, it'll be years, and there will always be that nagging 'what if', if he can't put his trust in the fact she won't do it again, then I would tell him to not even bother trying.. Because even if you trust they won't do it again, there's still a certain level of broken trust you feel.. Or maybe betrayed would be the correct term.

You shouldn't tell him what he wants to hear, you should tell him the truth. The above, is the truth.
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-15 21:38:21
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Asura.Ludoggy said: »
I remember reading some article where cheating can be good for a relationship...
then I stopped reading and played a game.
lol it will be good to end one :D
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By Phoenix.Novaria 2011-08-15 21:38:53
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I'm such an idiot /cry

Started dinner an hour ago...everyone decided they wanted tuna helper so I mixed everything up put it in the pan set to medium high to get it to boil but then...I did a bunch of other stuff and completely forgot I was even cooking...just heard some crazy crackling coming from the stove and remembered what I was originally doing...

unfortunately, an hour on medium high means dinner is completely ruined..

UGH!

Well, thank goodness we have some hotdogs I guess >.<
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By Asura.Ludoggy 2011-08-15 21:40:14
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I'm sure we've all been there Novaria >:
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By slipispsycho 2011-08-15 21:41:00
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Phoenix.Novaria said: »
I'm such an idiot /cry

Started dinner an hour ago...everyone decided they wanted tuna helper so I mixed everything up put it in the pan set to medium high to get it to boil but then...I did a bunch of other stuff and completely forgot I was even cooking...just heard some crazy crackling coming from the stove and remembered what I was originally doing...

unfortunately, an hour on medium high means dinner is completely ruined..

UGH!

Well, thank goodness we have some hotdogs I guess >.<
My grandma did something like that once, she nearly burned the house down.. With a pot of beans no less.. My first dog is the only reason we still had a house and she's still alive, he woke her up.
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