Leviathan.Hohenheim said:
»Bahamut.Baconwrap said:
»Leviathan.Hohenheim said:
»guy wont answer his phone or return texts ;-;
question? how long have u known this guy? did u do anything to cause him to ignore ur calls/texts?
3 months and no i didnt do anything ;; it's all him saying he doesnt feel like he can be someones partner right now because hes unsure of his life and feels lost. but he says he likes me and cares about me and doesnt want to upset/hurt me >< but im dying here;;
ouch that does suck actually, my sympathies.. two pieces of advice i can offer u as an ancient gay man, whose been down this road before many times.
1) ur dating mentality will change in ur 20's. Most gay men like to mingle, socialize in their early 20's. U want to see what type of men interest u sexually and mentally. God knows the type of men i dated at 23 are nothing like the men i date now. Look at this as an opportunity to meet other people.
2)Retrospect the situation. Would u really want to pursue a relationship with someone who is giving u this shady response? U don't tell someone you like/care for them, BUT oh by the way im not looking to settle down. Those types of response really play with peoples feelings. If he's giving u these shady and ambiguous responses at 3months imagine what awaits u in 4 months? Sure its just he prolly wants to see/date other people, but IMO his answer could have been better and more direct.