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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Selennia 2011-10-04 20:22:49
Pirating is illegal! And only cool if you have a pirate ship.
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Server: Fenrir
Game: FFXI
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2011-10-04 20:42:21
I never said anything about Pirating them. That was all you!
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Selennia 2011-10-04 20:52:55
Spence will tell you, I can read minds!
Carbuncle.Hanbok
Server: Carbuncle
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By Carbuncle.Hanbok 2011-10-04 21:09:49
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Alexander.Carrelo
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By Alexander.Carrelo 2011-10-05 01:26:00
lmfao that was great. XD
Leviathan.Hohenheim
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Hohenheim 2011-10-05 04:02:01
:s I just sent my mom a text telling her im gay (because its like 4am where she is, as opposed to 11pm here) It's funny that I haven't told her yet. Shes the one that would have the least problem with it, whereas my dad would have the most and he was the second to know.
Maybe I was just too worried that I'd make her upset and figured everything would be fine if I didn't, whereas I really didn't give two shits if my dad got upset (and boy did he and still is). Ah well.
Asura.Ina
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 17912
By Asura.Ina 2011-10-05 04:16:17
Sorry to hear it didn't go over so well with your dad : ( hopefully he will cool down some if you give him a bit of time.
Leviathan.Hohenheim
Server: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3351
By Leviathan.Hohenheim 2011-10-05 04:18:31
Weirdly enough my mom is awake :s Her reaction wasn't what I expected. I think she was actually surprised. She said she thought I was just asexual. I don't know what to make of it.
Asura.Ina
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
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By Asura.Ina 2011-10-05 04:27:11
The asexual part kinda sounds like making a joke to me so you might be in the clear with her.
Leviathan.Hohenheim
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Hohenheim 2011-10-05 04:30:50
Hmm hopefully. I'm not worried though(lie, I'm trying not to be worried), I mean what can I do you know lol.
Leviathan.Draylo
Server: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
By Leviathan.Draylo 2011-10-05 04:35:40
I've never understood why someone would get mad over that.
Leviathan.Hohenheim
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Hohenheim 2011-10-05 04:36:39
I've never understood why someone would get mad over that.
Welcome to the world of close-minded ignorant people :<
Asura.Ina
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 17912
By Asura.Ina 2011-10-05 04:53:03
Leviathan.Hohenheim said: »I've never understood why someone would get mad over that.
Welcome to the world of close-minded ignorant people :< It's hard for some people to accept because they would have grown up being told it was wrong combined with all the sterotypes people tag onto homosexuality doesn't help any. As we get older our minds tend to close up some too.
Leviathan.Hohenheim said: »Hmm hopefully. I'm not worried though(lie, I'm trying not to be worried), I mean what can I do you know lol. It's normal to be worried about it... It can hit parents hard when they arn't expecting it. There is a reason I keep my pc with a password and it's not just because my sister's ex tried using it for porn >.> Not sure how my parents would take it if they stumbled into this site and relized this was me posting lol
Leviathan.Hohenheim
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Hohenheim 2011-10-05 04:57:37
Leviathan.Hohenheim said: »I've never understood why someone would get mad over that.
Welcome to the world of close-minded ignorant people :< It's hard for some people to accept because they would have grown up being told it was wrong combined with all the sterotypes people tag onto homosexuality doesn't help any. As we get older our minds tend to close up some too.
Leviathan.Hohenheim said: »Hmm hopefully. I'm not worried though(lie, I'm trying not to be worried), I mean what can I do you know lol. It's normal to be worried about it... It can hit parents hard when they arn't expecting it. There is a reason I keep my pc with a password and it's not just because my sister's ex tried using it for porn >.> Not sure how my parents would take it if they stumbled into this site and relized this was me posting lol
Yeah..the shittier thing I think is I've other problems going on besides this. I really don't need confliction and drama over it ;_;
Server: Fenrir
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2011-10-05 18:24:41
/comfort.
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Xenophire 2011-10-05 18:30:00
Leviathan.Hohenheim said: »:s I just sent my mom a text telling her im gay (because its like 4am where she is, as opposed to 11pm here) It's funny that I haven't told her yet. Shes the one that would have the least problem with it, whereas my dad would have the most and he was the second to know.
Maybe I was just too worried that I'd make her upset and figured everything would be fine if I didn't, whereas I really didn't give two shits if my dad got upset (and boy did he and still is). Ah well. No offense, but your dad can kindly bugger off. You're his son.
My family was alright with it. I went to Christian counseling for it for a while. I was bored out of my mind and let my dad waste his money.
Server: Fenrir
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2011-10-05 18:35:52
Oh look! It's Xenophire. Well hello there!
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Xenophire 2011-10-05 18:36:46
Oh look! It's Xenophire. Well hello there! o/ Hiyo.
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2011-10-05 19:33:39
:)
Leviathan.Zephriel
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Zephriel 2011-10-05 19:56:11
Leviathan.Hohenheim said: »:s I just sent my mom a text telling her im gay (because its like 4am where she is, as opposed to 11pm here) It's funny that I haven't told her yet. Shes the one that would have the least problem with it, whereas my dad would have the most and he was the second to know.
Maybe I was just too worried that I'd make her upset and figured everything would be fine if I didn't, whereas I really didn't give two shits if my dad got upset (and boy did he and still is). Ah well. No offense, but your dad can kindly bugger off. You're his son.
My family was alright with it. I went to Christian counseling for it for a while. I was bored out of my mind and let my dad waste his money.
I was pretty lucky. When I told my dad I liked women the first thing he did was make a lesbian joke.
Carbuncle.Asymptotic
Server: Carbuncle
Game: FFXI
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-05 19:57:14
My dad: So I hear you're gay?
Me: yeah.
(awkward pause)
My dad: Do you have a boyfriend?
Me: yeah
(awkward pause)
My dad: (glare) Is he black?
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Leviathan.Zephriel
Server: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 346
By Leviathan.Zephriel 2011-10-05 19:57:53
Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »My dad: So I hear you're gay?
Me: yeah.
(awkward pause)
My dad: Do you have a boyfriend?
Me: yeah
(awkward pause)
My dad: (glare) Is he black?
LOL. Awesome dad you have there.
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Xenophire 2011-10-05 20:00:33
Leviathan.Zephriel said: »I was pretty lucky. When I told my dad I liked women the first thing he did was make a lesbian joke. LOL. I think my dad was upset about it for a while. We were at a diner and my mom almost knee'd my manberries. I made a joke about not being able to have children and my dad was like, "Not like you'll have them anyway."
But, just a few months ago, we were in the car and he turns to me, he's religious, btw: "Y'know, maybe I was wrong. Maybe you were born like that."
Leviathan.Zephriel
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Zephriel 2011-10-05 20:05:53
Leviathan.Zephriel said: »I was pretty lucky. When I told my dad I liked women the first thing he did was make a lesbian joke. LOL. I think my dad was upset about it for a while. We were at a diner and my mom almost knee' my manberries. I made a joke about not being able to have children and my dad was like, "Not like you'll have them anyway."
Aww, lol, I <3 when parents are able to joke about it. I'm still working on my mom but she's probably going to be in the dark until I'm in my 30s, wondering where her grandchildren are.
Cerberus.Irohuro
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-10-05 20:12:01
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Xenophire 2011-10-05 20:13:43
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Leviathan.Zephriel
Server: Leviathan
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Posts: 346
By Leviathan.Zephriel 2011-10-05 20:21:48
I don't even like Lady Gaga but this^ is amazing.
Server: Asura
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By Asura.Selennia 2011-10-05 20:33:51
Leviathan.Zephriel said: »Leviathan.Zephriel said: »I was pretty lucky. When I told my dad I liked women the first thing he did was make a lesbian joke. LOL. I think my dad was upset about it for a while. We were at a diner and my mom almost knee' my manberries. I made a joke about not being able to have children and my dad was like, "Not like you'll have them anyway."
Aww, lol, I <3 when parents are able to joke about it. I'm still working on my mom but she's probably going to be in the dark until I'm in my 30s, wondering where her grandchildren are. I'm telling your mom as soon as I learn her language! =p
Leviathan.Zephriel
Server: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
Posts: 346
By Leviathan.Zephriel 2011-10-05 20:44:20
Leviathan.Zephriel said: »Leviathan.Zephriel said: »I was pretty lucky. When I told my dad I liked women the first thing he did was make a lesbian joke. LOL. I think my dad was upset about it for a while. We were at a diner and my mom almost knee' my manberries. I made a joke about not being able to have children and my dad was like, "Not like you'll have them anyway."
Aww, lol, I <3 when parents are able to joke about it. I'm still working on my mom but she's probably going to be in the dark until I'm in my 30s, wondering where her grandchildren are. I'm telling your mom as soon as I learn her language! =p
Pssh she speaks English, she just can't read it or use a computer~
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 1506
By Asura.Selennia 2011-10-05 20:49:05
I'll teach her to read it, then send her an email letting you know! :p And send her your stash of elvaan pictures too.
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.
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