Btw discussing something obsessively is pretty much Alfania
Huh? I have zero problem admitting that I am a game/anime nerd or stock market nerd or something. It is fact that I do participate in such discussions often.
I just find Nietzsche, out of all the nerdy topics in a conversation, being THE nerdiest and most niche of all.
Aka, if you go outside and have a social meeting with strangers, then you start talking about games, about 35% of time people will say "yeah, I play video games too". And about 50%-60% of time when I talked about stock market people will respond "what did you own in your portfolio?" (Other popular conversation topics includes travelling, eating etc. those can be nerdy topics too, depends on how passionate you are.)
Now if you start talking about Nietzsche or philosophy, I can promise you 95% of the time conversation will just end there. Philosophy as a topic is just way more niche than most other topics.
there is nothing saying knowing about philosophy is inherently nerd
"Philosophy" is basically just a bunch of nerds who has nothing to do so they think too much about the meaning (or the lack of) of life. Then they wrote a bunch of things
passionately about the result of their thinking.
This is the very definition of nerd lol.
it could teach you how pointless is spending that much effort in nerdy duscussions and do something more productive to society
What kind of nerdy discussion is pointless and unproductive in the society? Give me an example please. I believe most nerdy topics are at least more productive than philosophy.
For me personally, discussing certain issues topics like AI, entertainment, economy helped me "connect the dots" during the discussion. In return it could generate more inspiration and potentially enhance the quality of decision making in life in the related field. I don't see philosophy providing the same value personally. But maybe I am biased because I haven't benefit from reading philosophy in the past, unlike other nerdy topics that I studied.
I don't see nerdy discussions inherently unproductive, it depends on the content and how you use the information. But maybe you have different opinions, so I'd like to hear it.