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 Shiva.Spathaian
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-02-09 15:54:00
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Asura.Vienner said: »
We went from migraines to relationship issues to ***...
This... actually doesn't seem that odd. Seems like standard topic progression for those topics.
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By Hev 2017-02-09 15:54:57
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Bismarck.Josiahfk said: »
I'm not calling anyone any form of generic swear as their nickname! That's just us asking for trouble


yeah. your obnoxiously "positive" attitude brings no trouble your way. everyone thinks it's very endearing.
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-02-09 16:00:33
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Asura.Vienner said: »
We went from migraines to relationship issues to ***...

Well I did have thai food for lunch...
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By Bahamut.Milamber 2017-02-09 16:07:57
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Asura.Vienner said: »
We went from migraines to relationship issues to ***...
Or did we...
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By Siren.Mosin 2017-02-09 16:09:54
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Time is a flat circle.
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2017-02-09 16:15:40
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Can I get a special option for when we have to report Josi.

Something like "is being too Canadian".
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By Asura.Vienner 2017-02-09 16:16:27
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Asura.Vienner said: »
We went from migraines to relationship issues to ***...

Well I did have thai food for lunch...
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2017-02-09 16:19:02
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Wouldn it happen to be the dank kindness?
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By Asura.Vienner 2017-02-09 16:22:07
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Lakshmi.Zerowone said: »
Can I get a special option for when we have to report Josi.

Something like "is being too Canadian".
I recall everyone getting all "where's Josi" around christmas when he vanished for 2 weeks.
 
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By Misa Pres 2017-02-09 16:31:07
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'muricaaaa

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By Shiva.Nikolce 2017-02-09 16:36:09
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In 34 long, stupid, arduous years, I have never once been too tired for sex.

48 years over here... I once worked 25 hours straight and still had gas left in the tank.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news Who the hell am i kidding... I love being the bearer of bad news!!!

Unless he is dead, your old man is getting plenty.

In the age before viagra...dudes gave themselves injections in the dickhole just so they could break of a piece.
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By Siren.Mosin 2017-02-09 16:44:31
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Shiva.Nikolce said: »
Unless he is dead, your old man is getting plenty.

I agree. maybe she's his beard.
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By Asura.Vienner 2017-02-09 16:48:07
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No its not like that. Its that look he makes when he's tired, his "dont come near me" look. So i dont bother.
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By Siren.Mosin 2017-02-09 16:49:43
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We're not trying to be mean, we're telling absolute truths about our gender.
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By Siren.Mosin 2017-02-09 16:50:23
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Well, lol, I'm not, anyway.
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By Ragnarok.Hevans 2017-02-09 16:58:42
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Asura.Vienner said: »
No its not like that. Its that look he makes when he's tired, his "dont come near me" look. So i dont bother.



just tell him what you're telling us and how it makes you feel. if he gets mad, tell him you're not criticizing, you just want him to know how you feel cause it's causing you issues. if he's a ***, *** him. if he pulls out his ***, *** him.
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By Asura.Vienner 2017-02-09 17:13:15
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I blame it on 15 years and 2 kids,I dont feel like whining about it to him because I dont feel like making him feel bad. It would be like pointing fingers while Im probably partially the problem ... if that makes sense.
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By Misa Pres 2017-02-09 17:38:17
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Asura.Vienner said: »
No its not like that. Its that look he makes when he's tired, his "dont come near me" look. So i dont bother.
blindfolds are a nice accessory to have. put one on him.
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By Siren.Mosin 2017-02-09 17:42:38
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I'm at 12 years and 3 kids V, that's no excuse. Your needs are important enough to warrant a conversation, placing blame isn't the direction any adult should go in that situation either. It's really none of my business, but at least bring up the conversation, because he can't be happy with that arrangement either unless he's banging a co-worker.

I'll drop the subject if you'd like, but I feel your pain as someone with some self-worth issues too.

Idk
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-02-09 22:36:02
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Watched the Neon Demon, that was interesting
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By Asura.Vienner 2017-02-10 02:47:16
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Siren.Mosin said: »
I'm at 12 years and 3 kids V, that's no excuse. Your needs are important enough to warrant a conversation, placing blame isn't the direction any adult should go in that situation either. It's really none of my business, but at least bring up the conversation, because he can't be happy with that arrangement either unless he's banging a co-worker.

I'll drop the subject if you'd like, but I feel your pain as someone with some self-worth issues too.

Idk
I wouldnt know when to bring up a conversation like that. Our hours are weird to say the least, I'd rather not bring it up since we work together every day and bringing that up would create an akward work environment to say the least...I like tranquil work its stressfull enough as it is.

Damn now I think about it, we're like always working (sure I have my laptop to post meaningless posts on forums and to poke the occasional mob on XI) but our days are like this:
Wake up at 7, get the kids ready to go to school, breakfast.
8.30 work starts
15.30-15.45 if we're lucky we get to have lunch here and pick up the kids, drive them to whatever afterschool ***they have going.
17 get back to work till...last night was 23h.
I usually go straight to bed after work and he watches tv till half past midnight (I dont know how he does it 6 hours and a half of sleep I'd be like a zombie if I'd do that every day)

Sure sometimes there is a calm day, then I make some time for myself (aka household) but he just always works even on his day off, which makes me feel bad cause I'm not, very annoying ><)

With having said this, most couple I know who do what we do... they end up breaking up, I get why though.

Maybe its just me. There's one constant in my whole relationship and thats that I always have to take initiative. I just hate that, makes me feel very unwanted tbh (I have some serious selfesteem issues, I used to do some pretty messed up ***cause of it(still do sometimes when I'm not feeling well)).
so throughout the years I kind of stopped taking initiative and its grown into this weird thing where we're more like best friends then an actual couple.
I tell myself I dont care cause thats just less painfull and imagine there are alot of couples who have it worse then us and that I'm whining about nothing.


...End of uncoherent rant
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By Ragnarok.Hevans 2017-02-10 02:59:40
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if i was the guy in the situation... i would say go with random ***. you would definitely get my attention. you are right though. there are probably couples who have it worse. however, i always say everything impacts people differently. you can't just say "it's not a big deal". if it's something that impacts you, you have to address it. even if it's hard (blah blah innuendo). you can say it's whining about nothing, but it's gotten to the point it's even a small bit of an issue. the longer you go, the more of a thing it becomes. worse case scenario there's an awkward conversation. best case scenario there's an, 'sorry you didn't feel loved sex'. that eye contact passionate get modded etc etc. sound like you have love. do the maintenance to keep it working properly.
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-02-10 07:01:17
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Wait, so both of you work out of the house for the same company or something?
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By Ramyrez 2017-02-10 07:27:19
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Bismarck.Josiahfk said: »
Asura.Vienner said: »
Lakshmi.Zerowone said: »
Can I get a special option for when we have to report Josi.

Something like "is being too Canadian".
I recall everyone getting all "where's Josi" around christmas when he vanished for 2 weeks.
Nah that was just the one or two people I ramble at the most or known the longest etc

We just care in our own special way.


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