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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-11 14:21:56
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Why haven't we adopted the EU system of sales tax in which it is already included in the price and rounded yet? Why are pennies still around?

"Why do you hate capitalism, Zahrah?"

IDK. I just can't contain all of my commie compulsions! It's a problem.

EDIT: Seriously considering phonebanking after talking to a bud since I'm home now.
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By Siren.Mosin 2016-04-11 14:23:44
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Any suggestions?

I'd nip that ***in the bud, and turn him into his immediate family for some in-house treatment. If he has no immediate family, your circle of friends should probably intervention his ***. The most important part here being: Close your eyes. It's a year in the future, this dude has killed himself, and all you did was send stupid text messages. are you going to be cool with that?
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By Ramyrez 2016-04-11 14:25:56
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Siren.Mosin said: »
volkom said: »
Any suggestions?

I'd nip that ***in the bud, and turn him into his immediate family for some in-house treatment. If he has no immediate family, your circle of friends should probably intervention his ***. The most important part here being: Close your eyes. It's a year in the future, this dude has killed himself, and all you did was send stupid text messages. are you going to be cool with that?

This, more or less.

PM'd you, though I got a weird occurrence so it may not have taken. Let me know.

Bottom line, don't ignore it. Refer him somewhere or, if it persists and he doesn't contact anyone, do it yourself if you must. That way, at worst everyone is a little embarrassed.
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2016-04-11 14:27:52
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Ramyrez said: »
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Why haven't we adopted the EU system of sales tax in which it is already included in the price and rounded yet? Why are pennies still around?

"Why do you hate capitalism, Zahrah?"

IDK. I just can't contain all of my commie compulsions! It's a problem.

EDIT: Seriously considering phonebanking after talking to a bud since I'm home now.

Which brings me to gas prices... How do we quantify 9/10's of a cent!!!
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By Ramyrez 2016-04-11 14:28:56
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Lakshmi.Zerowone said: »
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Ramyrez said: »
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Why haven't we adopted the EU system of sales tax in which it is already included in the price and rounded yet? Why are pennies still around?

"Why do you hate capitalism, Zahrah?"

IDK. I just can't contain all of my commie compulsions! It's a problem.

EDIT: Seriously considering phonebanking after talking to a bud since I'm home now.

Which brings me to gas prices... How do we quantify 9/10's of a cent!!!

By carrying those fractions into the burgeoning bank accounts of Middle Eastern and a select few American businessmen.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2016-04-11 14:30:13
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afternoon ni~ decided to sleep in today.
started the preload of dark souls 3 >:D


anywho on a more serious note. I have a question about suicide prevention. A friend of mine has been talking about it for the past few weeks and its gotten to the point where I'm not sure if they're just seeking attention or if its a real thing. Basically they were/are in a bad one sided relationship and every few days I go through different messages about finding the closets shooting range to jumping off bridges. When we do discuss it more, they've been/are going to be heavily drinking that day/night. So right now me and close friends in that circle have been trying to send positive messages and stuff daily. I just don't know what else to do. Any suggestions?
Best advice I can give is to first and foremost, just listen to him/her. Let them rant, spew emotions, and generally just talk about any and everything that is bothering them. Do so in a comfortable environment, and in person if possible. Some times having someone to just talk to is a massive relief.
Don't fall into the trap of offering advice, unless they ask for it. That is not your goal here. The goal is for them to realize they are not alone.
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2016-04-11 14:30:31
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But if I paid to the next rounded cent and demanded change?


Who really does that? I'm sure there is an old guy somewhere that does though.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-11 14:43:06
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volkom said: »
afternoon ni~ decided to sleep in today.
started the preload of dark souls 3 >:D


anywho on a more serious note. I have a question about suicide prevention. A friend of mine has been talking about it for the past few weeks and its gotten to the point where I'm not sure if they're just seeking attention or if its a real thing. Basically they were/are in a bad one sided relationship and every few days I go through different messages about finding the closets shooting range to jumping off bridges. When we do discuss it more, they've been/are going to be heavily drinking that day/night. So right now me and close friends in that circle have been trying to send positive messages and stuff daily. I just don't know what else to do. Any suggestions?

Don't ever treat it as though it's merely attention seeking. If you're available to hang-out in person, do it.

You never know when you'll get a voice message that someone plastered the breakfast nook with brain matter.
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By Siren.Mosin 2016-04-11 14:51:06
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I thoroughly enjoy me some suicide humor, but I think I'm in the minority on that one.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2016-04-11 14:52:02
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Another thought, Bob:
Once in awhile just drop them a quick line to show you're thinking of them. "Oh I saw this badass King Meshi action figure with kung-fu grip action and thought you'd enjoy it." "Hey I saw that movie you were talking about. Ryan Reynolds strikes again." You know, just random stuff to bring a smile to their face. It's amazing how much a small moment of happiness can change an entire day, and for every day that is brightened, your mood and outlook change with it.
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By Anna Ruthven 2016-04-11 14:52:58
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
volkom said: »
afternoon ni~ decided to sleep in today.
started the preload of dark souls 3 >:D


anywho on a more serious note. I have a question about suicide prevention. A friend of mine has been talking about it for the past few weeks and its gotten to the point where I'm not sure if they're just seeking attention or if its a real thing. Basically they were/are in a bad one sided relationship and every few days I go through different messages about finding the closets shooting range to jumping off bridges. When we do discuss it more, they've been/are going to be heavily drinking that day/night. So right now me and close friends in that circle have been trying to send positive messages and stuff daily. I just don't know what else to do. Any suggestions?

Don't ever treat it as though it's merely attention seeking. If you're available to hang-out in person, do it.

You never know when you'll get a voice message that someone plastered the breakfast nook with brain matter.
If someone's joking or seeking attention using suicide, they deserve to have to sit through an intervention and all that comes with it. It's one of those situations where "I was just joking" doesn't work.
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By Siren.Mosin 2016-04-11 14:56:24
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Asura.Dameshi said: »
Another thought, Bob:
Once in awhile just drop them a quick line to show you're thinking of them. "Oh I saw this badass King Meshi action figure with kung-fu grip action and thought you'd enjoy it." "Hey I saw that movie you were talking about. Ryan Reynolds strikes again." You know, just random stuff to bring a smile to their face. It's amazing how much a small moment of happiness can change an entire day, and for every day that is brightened, your mood and outlook change with it.

not to argue with royal decree or anything but... this is coming from a normal person's perspective... If someone is clinically depressed and thinking about giving up the ghost, I don't think pleasantries are going to amount to ***.

sorry, I'll stfu now.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2016-04-11 14:58:11
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Siren.Mosin said: »
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Another thought, Bob:
Once in awhile just drop them a quick line to show you're thinking of them. "Oh I saw this badass King Meshi action figure with kung-fu grip action and thought you'd enjoy it." "Hey I saw that movie you were talking about. Ryan Reynolds strikes again." You know, just random stuff to bring a smile to their face. It's amazing how much a small moment of happiness can change an entire day, and for every day that is brightened, your mood and outlook change with it.

not to argue with royal decree or anything but... this is coming from a normal person's perspective... If someone is clinically depressed and thinking about giving up the ghost, I don't think pleasantries are going to amount to ***.

sorry, I'll stfu now.
It does more than the effort it takes to do it. Trust me.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2016-04-11 15:00:09
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There's high chance they'll treat you bad and push you away.
You need patience and fortitude too when dealing with someone in that condition.
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By Ragnarok.Hevans 2016-04-11 15:01:53
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omg i hate people who eat and talk on the phone. that sound... this person was talking to me and it sounded like they were eating a gobstopper for the first time. ready to throw up. i mean have some damn manners.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2016-04-11 15:04:59
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omg i hate people who eat and talk on the phone. that sound... this person was talking to me and it sounded like they were eating a gobstopper for the first time. ready to throw up. i mean have some damn manners.
"Yeah man that sounds good."
*slurp*
"Mmmhmm."
*crunch*
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-11 15:07:59
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Anna Ruthven said: »
If someone's joking or seeking attention using suicide, they deserve to have to sit through an intervention and all that comes with it. It's one of those situations where "I was just joking" doesn't work.

It's better to do it face-to-face. You can read the intent.
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By Ragnarok.Hevans 2016-04-11 15:14:04
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Asura.Dameshi said: »
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omg i hate people who eat and talk on the phone. that sound... this person was talking to me and it sounded like they were eating a gobstopper for the first time. ready to throw up. i mean have some damn manners.
"Yeah man that sounds good."
*slurp*
"Mmmhmm."
*crunch*


it was more like... have you ever talked to an old person with false teeth, and they move them around a lot? the sllluuuucccch slurp, the teeth hitting each other. oh god... i feel sick.
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By Siren.Mosin 2016-04-11 15:31:32
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whatever, you're daydreaming about your future with viagra and toothless hummers in the nursing home.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2016-04-11 15:35:15
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Siren.Mosin said: »
whatever, you're daydreaming about your future with viagra and toothless hummers in the nursing home.
You say that as if it is a bad thing.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-11 15:37:55
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This got real dark real quick.
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By Siren.Mosin 2016-04-11 16:00:14
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lol, what are those from?
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-11 16:03:03
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'You're the Worst' on FX.
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By Bismarck.Misao 2016-04-11 16:19:06
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get your friend hooked on a fun never ending anime, that way, he will always want to see the new episode. and not kick the bucket before.

jokes asides, if he keeps talking about it, surely means he doesn't want to really do it (but could do it) and just wants to be pulled away from that idea.

not really sure what i am saying but am intervention or calling the suicide squad number (thats what is called? suicide squad? no wait, suicide prevention line! yeh thats the one) and ask em for proper help.
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2016-04-11 16:22:39
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suicide squad

They don't fix the problem, they just do a memory wipe
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2016-04-11 16:27:07
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Siren.Mosin said: »
whatever, you're daydreaming about your future with viagra and toothless hummers in the nursing home.

All I see is Bruce Campbell in Bubba Ho-Tep when I read this.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-11 16:37:33
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Siren.Mosin said: »
lol, what are those from?

It's actually a riot if you're a little cynical and like your humor leaning to bleak realities that skulk around the corner. The cast and creators are in our age group. Probably a more truthful exploration of relationships romantic or platonic.
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By Bismarck.Misao 2016-04-11 16:46:17
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By Siren.Mosin 2016-04-11 16:50:38
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Bismarck.Misao said: »
suicide squad

great name for a band.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2016-04-12 05:52:10
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Three hours of sleep. Most likely no reprieve at 10:00. It's going to be an interesting day.
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