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By Shiva.Nikolce 2014-05-05 14:24:41
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »Friends ex-gf. This will end with bowls and bowls of ***stew.
and no offense, but I can hear your weiner thinking it over from over here! trying to come up with the Pros for the plus column lol.
Edit: Now if only I had bet money I would page with that, everything would be fine!
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2014-05-05 14:26:48
She's his ex... what does it matter anymore?
Then again... there's probably a reason she's his ex... do you want to take that risk? Or did she discard his *** for you? Are you the reason he spent all those days getting drunk beyond recognition and calling what he thought was her but was really just some strange guy working at a dog shelter who began to record those conversations and put them on youtube!?!?
I'm tired.
You don't think getting into a relationship with a friend's ex a week after things went *** up is a *** move?
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2014-05-05 14:28:08
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »You don't think getting into a relationship with a friend's ex a week after things went *** up is a *** move?
for some reason everyone leaves important details like these out of the initial post!
 Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 14:28:43
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2014-05-05 14:31:43
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »You don't think getting into a relationship with a friend's ex a week after things went *** up is a *** move?
for some reason everyone leaves important details like these out of the initial post!
What's the statute of limitations on a friends ex again? xD
 Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 14:35:59
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »She's his ex... what does it matter anymore?
Then again... there's probably a reason she's his ex... do you want to take that risk? Or did she discard his *** for you? Are you the reason he spent all those days getting drunk beyond recognition and calling what he thought was her but was really just some strange guy working at a dog shelter who began to record those conversations and put them on youtube!?!?
I'm tired.
You don't think getting into a relationship with a friend's ex a week after things went *** up is a *** move? Nope. If they still wanted each other or if it was ever going to work they would still be together. Once they break up its a free for all as far as I'm concerned.
Now you're friend might see it differently but I already explained how I felt about that. If it comes to that though you got a decision to make.
If she dicked him over or was a total biotch then I doubt you'd want to be with her anyways. I figure if you're even a little interested she's probably a decent enough person and why give up a shot because of something silly like oh but my friend dated her once!
Beware though he will always be able to make sloppy seconds jokes after this though... It's good times.
Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 14:36:46
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »You don't think getting into a relationship with a friend's ex a week after things went *** up is a *** move?
for some reason everyone leaves important details like these out of the initial post!
What's the statute of limitations on a friends ex again? xD The minute they break up as long as you weren't working her before the relationship ended.
Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 14:38:34
Whatever happened to bros before hoes?
Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 14:41:36
Whatever happened to bros before hoes? I put my bro before the hoe by not pursuing something while they were together.
The relationship is over. Dead. Kaput. No reason not to pursue something if it's there.
Edit: and you know what that could be my future wife you're calling a hoe you ***!
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Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 14:45:20
This stuff is just as ridiculous as "I liked him/her first so you can't have him/her ever!"
No... this is not the third grade.
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 Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-05-05 14:50:30
When people run in the same few circles, eventually stuff happens. That's what I chock it up to.
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Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 14:50:42
Whatever happened to bros before hoes? I put my bro before the hoe by not pursuing something while they were together.
The relationship is over. Dead. Kaput. No reason not to pursue something if it's there.
Edit: and you know what that could be my future wife you're calling a hoe you ***! You should ask your friend permission first. But make sure she doesn't know, otherwise she'll feel like an object, etc. It's more of a courtesy thing.
It's an interesting phenomenon to keep a friend and bang his ex at the same time.
Funny story about that... I'll give you the interesting details.
Friend went to Alaska to go teach for a year, I asked if he didn't mind, he said sure, but I don't think she'll go for you. Challenge accepted! Randomly sends me a bottle of chloroform he found in the storage closet up in AK. Challenge completed in a week.
The chloroform was unrelated, just a funny side note.
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Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-05-05 14:53:06
We are chloroform advocates here, but only for personal use. Ether binges are only reserved for travelling through bat country.
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Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 14:55:13
We are chloroform advocates here, but only for personal use. Ether binges are only reserved for travelling through bat country. I tried to get myself to pass out with it. Didn't work.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2014-05-05 14:56:08
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »What's the statute of limitations on a friends ex again? xD
we need the whole story before the council can convene...
But if I was sparth, I would look at my phone, then put it down at my side and then say this to sparth's friend.
S.) Do you think she is doing this just to try to get back at you?
F.) What?
S.) Lisa, she's (texting me/ emailing me/ calling me) trying to hook up I think.
Now, the ball is in your friends court and his reply dictates the terms of your agreement. Which is critical.
He could say.
I'll kill you!
or
Go ahead man, Idc
or
any number of things... but if he gives you the go ahead you have to reconfirm by stating... are you sure you would be ok with me _______ lisa?
You can't at any time express any interest in doing so until after he has said it's ok at least three times and you shake on it.
PARKER Edit: The views of Nikolce are in no way the views of the management of this station, any advice is thereby agreed to be taken "at one's own risk" side effects may include loss of friendship, death by chocking, baldness, blindness, vomiting, weight gain, venereal disease, constipation, pregnancy, acne, a sudden urge to gamble, sleepwalking, dry mouth, itchy eye, yellowing of the face or skin, which may be a sign of liver failure be sure to ask your doctor if dating your friends ex is right for you. If you can't afford your medication astra zenica may be able to help
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Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 14:56:22
Moral of story I guess is, you can't chloroform yourself.
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By Anna Ruthven 2014-05-05 14:56:32
We are chloroform advocates here, but only for personal use. Ether binges are only reserved for travelling through bat country. We had two bags of grass, seventy-five pellets of mescaline, five sheets of high powered blotter acid, a salt shaker half full of cocaine, and a whole galaxy of multi-colored uppers, downers, screamers, laughers... and also a quart of tequila, a quart of rum, a case of beer, a pint of raw ether and two dozen amyls.
Not that we needed all that for the trip, but once you get locked into a serious drug collection, the tendency is to push it as far as you can.
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By Bismarck.Misao 2014-05-05 15:00:45
Well, I feel dumb! Totally forgot about his brother!
Damn you, California Cheese!
Took me a sec.
I think you beat me!
I mean, HAHA Diggy-Diego! Meet your doom!
:s tough one
Not sure where to go from here. Hmmm...
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Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 15:10:43
Whatever happened to bros before hoes? I put my bro before the hoe by not pursuing something while they were together.
The relationship is over. Dead. Kaput. No reason not to pursue something if it's there.
Edit: and you know what that could be my future wife you're calling a hoe you ***! You should ask your friend permission first. But make sure she doesn't know, otherwise she'll feel like an object, etc. It's more of a courtesy thing.
It's an interesting phenomenon to keep a friend and bang his ex at the same time.
Funny story about that... I'll give you the interesting details.
Friend went to Alaska to go teach for a year, I asked if he didn't mind, he said sure, but I don't think she'll go for you. Challenge accepted! Randomly sends me a bottle of chloroform he found in the storage closet up in AK. Challenge completed in a week.
The chloroform was unrelated, just a funny side note. So it's ok to treat someone like an object as long as they don't know.... roger.
It's not all that interesting. Don't be a child lol. She does not belong to you and I don't need your permission to date her if she feels the same about me.
Someone else is eventually going to swoop in and bang your ex... If you care about her why not have it be someone you know that will treat her well...
How you navigate the friendship after that is up to you and your friend but personally I don't like passing up chances because of something silly like this.
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Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 15:13:52
Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »What's the statute of limitations on a friends ex again? xD
we need the whole story before the council can convene...
But if I was sparth, I would look at my phone, then put it down at my side and then say this to sparth's friend.
S.) Do you think she is doing this just to try to get back at you?
F.) What?
S.) Lisa, she's (texting me/ emailing me/ calling me) trying to hook up I think.
Now, the ball is in your friends court and his reply dictates the terms of your agreement. Which is critical.
He could say.
I'll kill you!
or
Go ahead man, Idc
or
any number of things... but if he gives you the go ahead you have to reconfirm by stating... are you sure you would be ok with me _______ lisa?
You can't at any time express any interest in doing so until after he has said it's ok at least three times and you shake on it.
PARKER Edit: The views of Nikolce are in no way the views of the management of this station, any advice is thereby agreed to be taken "at one's own risk" side effects may include loss of friendship, death by chocking, baldness, blindness, vomiting, weight gain, venereal disease, constipation, pregnancy, acne, a sudden urge to gamble, sleepwalking, dry mouth, itchy eye, yellowing of the face or skin, which may be a sign of liver failure be sure to ask your doctor if dating your friends ex is right for you. If you can't afford your medication astra zenica may be able to help I find that whole pretense to be a waste of time and energy... The people never really know until after it starts happening anyways... he could give you permission then see you two together after and rage inside...
What's going to happen then? He askes you to stop seeing her? You going to break up with her because he no longer likes the idea?
He could say no at first and then later think about it and then be fine with it but by then your chance may have already passed.
Find out what you want more and what you're willing to risk and then make a decision. For each of us it's a bit different.
Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 15:16:02
Whatever happened to bros before hoes? I put my bro before the hoe by not pursuing something while they were together.
The relationship is over. Dead. Kaput. No reason not to pursue something if it's there.
Edit: and you know what that could be my future wife you're calling a hoe you ***! You should ask your friend permission first. But make sure she doesn't know, otherwise she'll feel like an object, etc. It's more of a courtesy thing.
It's an interesting phenomenon to keep a friend and bang his ex at the same time.
Funny story about that... I'll give you the interesting details.
Friend went to Alaska to go teach for a year, I asked if he didn't mind, he said sure, but I don't think she'll go for you. Challenge accepted! Randomly sends me a bottle of chloroform he found in the storage closet up in AK. Challenge completed in a week.
The chloroform was unrelated, just a funny side note. So it's ok to treat someone like an object as long as they don't know.... roger.
It's not all that interesting. Don't be a child lol. She does not belong to you and I don't need your permission to date her if she feels the same about me.
Someone else is eventually going to swoop in and bang your ex... If you care about her why not have it be someone you know that will treat her well...
How you navigate the friendship after that is up to you and your friend but personally I don't like passing up chances because of something silly like this. I've yet to find a guy who thinks this. Wouldn't life be great if more people thought like this?
Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 15:20:42
Even the most intelligent person I knew, an electrical engineer who does prosthetic limbs for a living now, told me "Don't you dare talk to her!" I'm like "Wow, I did one time and you automatically label me as that guy?" He hated her guts too, and I had very little interest in her, but she sent me a message on myspace (yeah it was awhile ago) and he got his panties all in a bunch, lol.
Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 15:22:17
Try everything once, as they say, just don't label me man for being adventurous and trying new things!
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 15:28:56
That's because we're all pretty juvenile.
Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 15:30:20
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So might as well do it.
Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 15:33:38
Even the most intelligent person I knew, an electrical engineer who does prosthetic limbs for a living now, told me "Don't you dare talk to her!" I'm like "Wow, I did one time and you automatically label me as that guy?" He hated her guts too, and I had very little interest in her, but she sent me a message on myspace (yeah it was awhile ago) and he got his panties all in a bunch, lol. Or what? lol... Always makes me laugh when people do that. What kind of friend threatens you?
Just reply with the old well I wasn't even going to pursue her until now...
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-05-05 15:34:15
Well, I feel dumb! Totally forgot about his brother!
Damn you, Tupac!
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Took me a sec.
I think you beat me!
I mean, HAHA Diggy-Diego! Meet your doom!
:s tough one
Not sure where to go from here. Hmmm...
Misa and me doin' the pop culture Monday match!
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Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-05 15:36:06
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So might as well do it. I guess... but that's a terrible reason to do anything.
My whole point is that you make a decision. Do you like this girl/guy? Do you want to give it a real shot?
If the answer is yes to both then I say go for it.
You're friend may or may not understand but that's a decision you have to make.
Bismarck.Misao
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By Bismarck.Misao 2014-05-05 15:39:48
Well, I feel dumb! Totally forgot about his brother!
Damn you, Santana!
Took me a sec.
I think you beat me!
I mean, HAHA Diggy-Diego! Meet your doom!
:s tough one
Not sure where to go from here. Hmmm...
Misa and me doin' the pop culture Monday match!
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Leviathan.Chaosx
Server: Leviathan
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-05 15:44:31
Even the most intelligent person I knew, an electrical engineer who does prosthetic limbs for a living now, told me "Don't you dare talk to her!" I'm like "Wow, I did one time and you automatically label me as that guy?" He hated her guts too, and I had very little interest in her, but she sent me a message on myspace (yeah it was awhile ago) and he got his panties all in a bunch, lol. Or what? lol... Always makes me laugh when people do that. What kind of friend threatens you?
Just reply with the old well I wasn't even going to pursue her until now... I was living with him at the time so I had to be like, nah, just interesting. He then proceeded to talk ***about her for awhile. She was a ***, but I had nothing against her.
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
Pics worth referencing: 
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Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
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