FFXIAH Linkshell Ni

Unless there's an Arab bride ad.

rather than say "my wife and I are swingers and I'm thinking about inviting a cute woman I work with to the party"

which I think everyone would respond to with...oh yeah good luck with that or whatever. It goes like this...

I'm thinking about asking out a woman at work
Oh that's nice good luck
Wait Aren't you married?
Yeah but my wife is encouraging me to ask her out
Are you going to tell the girl you're married?
Well...I won't lie about it if she asks but that's really more of a surprise I like to toss in on the second date

So while the conversation about deceiving the girl is going on
which at the end of the day seems the only sticking point, (you should really be up front with the woman so she doesn't end up getting hurt btw)

we also have flav with the "ima bang your wife" and stoopid Nik with the forty seven stories of infidelity that went wrong.... and then the white knight of the pedobear clan chimes in and all hell breaks loose tossing around the bigot word and all that nonsense and the anti-flav battalion rolls out it's troops and....

Had the whole story been laid out at the beginning, or had I bothered to pay attention to his thousands of previous posts I could have saved myself a lot of time rambling off stories nobody cares about anyways....

so meanwhile weak's story keeps unraveling and we learn his wife has already cheated on him with other people and he's kinda hurt by it (I think)but then sometimes he gets in on threesomes (which he likes) but then he doesn't like when other dudes are tossed in the mix (and I can't say I blame him on that one)and at some point you start wondering why they ever got married in the first place... what's the point? to file taxes together?

Who knows?

It's the internet so the whole thing could be 115% *** and Weak could be a fifty seven year old bachelor fapping in his mom's basement to the controversy.

But he sounds kinda sad like he isn't really all that sure about the whole thing and he would like someone to talk to about it but it's the internet so anything you say can be used against you in the court of ffxiah.

At the end of the day I think he should have an open an honest conversation with his wife about not being to crazy about tasting some other dude's semen when he kisses her goodnight and maybe they should have some ground rules that take his feelings into consideration or call the whole thing off.

Because if you read into the story there are some hurt feelings and passive aggressiveness bleeding out there between the lines. Especially the part about him never going to be able to satisfy all her needs thing which was just sad.

So at the end of the day I kind of feel a little bit bad for weakness...

But it's no longer a simple cheating on your wife story, where I can jump in and say it's a bad idea to cheat and here is several examples

it's a overly complicated ever changing highly situational swinging relationship that his wife seems to be progressively taking further and further outside of his comfort zone. so what started out as a an occasional threesome turns into his wife drifting farther and farther away from him into threesomes with other people because he doesn't feel down for the two dudes thing... and once you opened pandora's box it's probably hard to get the lid closed without looking like a hypocrite...

Or maybe he should just lighten up and let some random dude give him the high hard one... Who knows? he may find out that he's been gay the whole time..... /shrug

I know he doesn't like that stuff brought up in here.... But let's see... for me brushing the teeth just wouldn't cut it. It's a mental imagery thing and a smell thing and a aversion to cooties thing... let's just say that if there is a specific hypochondria that focuses only on venereal diseases, I totally have that!