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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:18:28
I am nicer to customers who are nice/pleasant to me. If they're rude or just blunt, then I am also blunt, but I won't be rude. Even to that person who was yelling at me and called me an idiot... though jokes on them, I made sure they're not allowed to shop here again (and they have tried).
I actually enjoy talking to the nice people.
By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:22:23
meh, I disagree when it comes to tech support.
Like day 1 of my class, the teacher said "you would want your doctor to be nice wouldn't you?" I respond "no I want them to keep me healthy, I don't give two shits if they put on a fake smile or not." But you aren't the only person that lives in this world. You have to adapt your personality to those you are dealing with. If I call tech support, yes, I want someone who is competent, but I also want them to talk to me, not just spew their knowledge at me. Being factual is important and nobody is asking a tech support person to lie, just to be nice, but they definitely need to be pleasant to work with.
Same with a doctor. I want him/her to have a nice bed side manner and be able to tell me things, even difficult things, while being somewhat compassionate. My Mom's doctor told her she had breast cancer in a very flippant way while on the phone, instead of telling her in person. That is completely rude and uncalled for. My doctor gave me my results over the phone, but that was because my results were of a happier nature. I'm sure if I had the genetic mutation that causes breast cancer, I would have had to drive to the office so we could discuss our next courses of action.
lol, that's not what they teach...
and I'm sorry, being competent and being able to do the task at hand is worlds more important than whether or not you feel like they're your friend, the world isn't a lovey dovey place. In regards to tech support, it's promoting the general use of idiots who don't know what they're doing over people with skills, when typically those with computer skills have some sort of personality difference than "normal" I find this disgusting, and it doesn't amaze me that people generally hate calling tech support as most of the people they talk to know nothing...
I see nothing wrong with telling somebody something over the phone, what difference does it make if it was over the phone or in person?
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-22 11:22:27
I think the funniest thing is that everyone despises customer service, yet regardless of what job/title you have, you still do some form of customer service.
I work in Finance at corporate and I do not deal with external customers at all. My customers are the sales consultants. I LOVE when they come at me all pissed off about something and I can show them why they are wrong or why it is the way it is. To make it even better, I always do it with a smile (no not an evil one, that comes later) like my only job is to help them. It is amazing the attitude adjustments I have seen in some of our consultants.
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By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:23:20
Google has really wanted me to buy a new car for the past couple of days.
Honda Accord, will take a punishment.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-22 11:23:30
I am nicer to customers who are nice/pleasant to me. If they're rude or just blunt, then I am also blunt, but I won't be rude. Even to that person who was yelling at me and called me an idiot... though jokes on them, I made sure they're not allowed to shop here again (and they have tried).
I actually enjoy talking to the nice people.
I've found that most people are very understanding. One lesson you take from working these kinds of jobs is, have sympathy for these people. It's a hard job. They take queues from your attitude.
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-22 11:24:16
Quick, I need birthday present ideas. Was gonna get a 3DS off ebay, but purple 3DS came out and of course that's her favorite color and she wants that, but not spending that much money on something I don't think she'll use much. Buy one off ebay and then buy a purple cover?
By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:24:59
I think the funniest thing is that everyone despises customer service, yet regardless of what job/title you have, you still do some form of customer service.
I work in Finance at corporate and I do not deal with external customers at all. My customers are the sales consultants. I LOVE when they come at me all pissed off about something and I can show them why they are wrong or why it is the way it is. To make it even better, I always do it with a smile (no not an evil one, that comes later) like my only job is to help them. It is amazing the attitude adjustments I have seen in some of our consultants.
yeah, that's why I'm going to work for myself.
Quick, I need birthday present ideas. Was gonna get a 3DS off ebay, but purple 3DS came out and of course that's her favorite color and she wants that, but not spending that much money on something I don't think she'll use much.
buy a used 3ds, buy the tool to open it, can of spray paint.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-22 11:25:37
I think the funniest thing is that everyone despises customer service, yet regardless of what job/title you have, you still do some form of customer service.
^^^This!^^^
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-22 11:27:29
Google has really wanted me to buy a new car for the past couple of days.
Honda Accord, will take a punishment.
Don't need one yet. Bought a Jetta in '08. Not ready for retirement yet. I'll give it another couple of years.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:28:07
I think the funniest thing is that everyone despises customer service, yet regardless of what job/title you have, you still do some form of customer service.
I work in Finance at corporate and I do not deal with external customers at all. My customers are the sales consultants. I LOVE when they come at me all pissed off about something and I can show them why they are wrong or why it is the way it is. To make it even better, I always do it with a smile (no not an evil one, that comes later) like my only job is to help them. It is amazing the attitude adjustments I have seen in some of our consultants. I swear most of the people here would still treat it as being my fault. That's why I stay out of things if possible lol.
Quick, I need birthday present ideas. Was gonna get a 3DS off ebay, but purple 3DS came out and of course that's her favorite color and she wants that, but not spending that much money on something I don't think she'll use much. Buy 3DS off of ebay and a can of purple spray paint.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-22 11:30:24
I think the funniest thing is that everyone despises customer service, yet regardless of what job/title you have, you still do some form of customer service.
I work in Finance at corporate and I do not deal with external customers at all. My customers are the sales consultants. I LOVE when they come at me all pissed off about something and I can show them why they are wrong or why it is the way it is. To make it even better, I always do it with a smile (no not an evil one, that comes later) like my only job is to help them. It is amazing the attitude adjustments I have seen in some of our consultants. I swear most of the people here would still treat it as being my fault. That's why I stay out of things if possible lol.
IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT!!!
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:31:21
I think the funniest thing is that everyone despises customer service, yet regardless of what job/title you have, you still do some form of customer service.
I work in Finance at corporate and I do not deal with external customers at all. My customers are the sales consultants. I LOVE when they come at me all pissed off about something and I can show them why they are wrong or why it is the way it is. To make it even better, I always do it with a smile (no not an evil one, that comes later) like my only job is to help them. It is amazing the attitude adjustments I have seen in some of our consultants. I swear most of the people here would still treat it as being my fault. That's why I stay out of things if possible lol.
IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT!!! I carried as hard as I could! Can only do so much with top lane feeding Lee Sin!
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-22 11:32:07
I see nothing wrong with telling somebody something over the phone, what difference does it make if it was over the phone or in person? When you are telling someone they have an illness there is more involved with just receiving the knowledge. There is an emotional blow and that person needs some sort of comfort (and not the lovey dovey thing you seem to think I'm talking about). I just mean someone there. My Mom was devastated when she found out, because her older sister, a cousin, and her father had all passed away from breast cancer. The only thing that was going thru her mind was "I've just been given my death sentence." You DO NOT deliver that kind of news to someone over the phone.
being competent and being able to do the task at hand is worlds more important than whether or not you feel like they're your friend Who said anything about being their friend. There are many shades of nice and being pleasant to work with and talk to does not mean you are trying to befriend someone. It's almost like you see tech support as 2 types; complete *** or best friend; where there are many different styles/degrees between the 2. You just need to know your audience and adapt.
the world isn't a lovey dovey place You honestly crack me up with this, because its like you assume I am some naive individual who thinks the world is all rainbows and roses. Think again ... I live in this world and I know what it is like. It is also not this horrid place that you seem to think it is.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-22 11:34:57
I carried as hard as I could! Can only do so much with top lane feeding Lee Sin!
Sounds more like that damn Ashe in bot lane! Damn her to the deepest depths of Hell!
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:36:10
I carried as hard as I could! Can only do so much with top lane feeding Lee Sin!
Sounds more like that damn Ashe in bot lane! Damn her to the deepest depths of Hell! I know right? I mean who uses a bow in this day and age?
All about dem maces and axes.
...VALHALLA!
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-22 11:42:09
I carried as hard as I could! Can only do so much with top lane feeding Lee Sin!
Sounds more like that damn Ashe in bot lane! Damn her to the deepest depths of Hell! I know right? I mean who uses a bow in this day and age?
All about dem maces and axes.
...VALHALLA!
B...B...But...My bow! She's so sparkly!
/sobs over gallon of ice cream and wails
My arrow didn't land, I didn't ghost fast enough, the jungler was picking on me, a...a...and (sniffs) Tryn was yelling at me! I'm sooo sorry.
/meltdown
By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:43:06
I see nothing wrong with telling somebody something over the phone, what difference does it make if it was over the phone or in person? When you are telling someone they have an illness there is more involved with just receiving the knowledge. There is an emotional blow and that person needs some sort of comfort (and not the lovey dovey thing you seem to think I'm talking about). I just mean someone there. My Mom was devastated when she found out, because her older sister, a cousin, and her father had all passed away from breast cancer. The only thing that was going thru her mind was "I've just been given my death sentence." You DO NOT deliver that kind of news to someone over the phone.
being competent and being able to do the task at hand is worlds more important than whether or not you feel like they're your friend Who said anything about being their friend. There are many shades of nice and being pleasant to work with and talk to does not mean you are trying to befriend someone. It's almost like you see tech support as 2 types; complete *** or best friend; where there are many different styles/degrees between the 2. You just need to know your audience and adapt.
the world isn't a lovey dovey place You honestly crack me up with this, because its like you assume I am some naive individual who thinks the world is all rainbows and roses. Think again ... I live in this world and I know what it is like. It is also not this horrid place that you seem to think it is.
not a oncologists's job to deal with a patient's emotions, that's what shrinks are for...
I still see no problem with telling somebody a diagnosis by whatever means necessary.
not everyone is:
however not everyone is:
either, so you can take the doctor who makes you feel good, and I'll take the doctor who cares more about the illness than whether or not I am emotionally handling it well.
there's plenty of people in the middle, but there's very few competent, and mostly people who are incompetent.
The industry leans more heavily on the latter, and I find it disgusting.
No, the world pretty much sucks, people are pretty much emotional idiots who overreact to everything.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:43:12
B...B...But...My bow! She's so sparkly!
/sobs over gallon of ice cream and wails
My arrow didn't land, I didn't ghost fast enough, the jungler was picking on me, a...a...and (sniffs) Tryn was yelling at me! I'm sooo sorry.
/meltdown There there little Ashe, don't cry.
Grand Kaiser Morde will guide the hue.
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By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:43:44
That doesn't sound safe at all.
spray paint? why not?
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By Cerberus.Kalyna 2012-05-22 11:44:35
Do you guys believe in ghosts?
I swear to God this just happened.
So during lunch, I go to the bathroom. It's just me in there. Suddenly, I hear something fall and a strange shadow go across the floor near my stall. This happens until I get out of the stall and look around and I see this strange figure right there.
Damn cat scared the crap out of me.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:46:17
Jet, there is no reason you can't know what you're doing and still show some sympathy to someone. There is no reason to be an *** to someone just for the sake of being an ***. People who work in a field dealing with people need to put on their big boy/girl pants and realize that treating people with respect and kindness, even those who don't deserve it, is part of the job.
Should someone get hired because they are nicer than someone who is more skilled? No. Is it hard to feign kindness? No.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:48:55
That doesn't sound safe at all.
spray paint? why not? Can't the paint drip inside the system and get on the chips/board? Take the shell off, paint it, let it dry, then reassemble.
Doing it while assembled would not be good lol.
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By Cerberus.Kalyna 2012-05-22 11:49:25
That's why you use masking tape?
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Or how about buying one of those covers and spray painting that
By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:50:35
Do you guys believe in ghosts?
I swear to God this just happened.
So during lunch, I go to the bathroom. It's just me in there. Suddenly, I hear something fall and a strange shadow go across the floor near my stall. This happens until I get out of the stall and look around and I see this strange figure right there.
Damn cat scared the crap out of me.
I don't hold beliefs in anything that there's no reason to.
Jet, there is no reason you can't know what you're doing and still show some sympathy to someone. There is no reason to be an *** to someone just for the sake of being an ***. People who work in a field dealing with people need to put on their big boy/girl pants and realize that treating people with respect and kindness, even those who don't deserve it, is part of the job.
Should someone get hired because they are nicer than someone who is more skilled? No. Is it hard to feign kindness? No.
on your first point, not saying there isn't, however too often people are overlooked because they lack the ability to put on a fake smile, but yet they are more competent than their entire staff. (some friends of mine).
on your second point: lol yeah there is...
No, people need to realize that the world isn't a nice place, and get over it when the person who actually knows what they're doing doesn't emotionally suck their *** to garner their favor.
You can't please everybody, and it's insane to try.
By Jetackuu 2012-05-22 11:51:32
That doesn't sound safe at all.
spray paint? why not? Can't the paint drip inside the system and get on the chips/board? Take the shell off, paint it, let it dry, then reassemble.
Doing it while assembled would not be good lol.
thought this was implied when I said by the tool to open it?
of course you don't want to do it when it's assembled...
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-22 11:54:22
on your first point, not saying there isn't, however too often people are overlooked because they lack the ability to put on a fake smile, but yet they are more competent than their entire staff. (some friends of mine).
on your second point: lol yeah there is...
No, people need to realize that the world isn't a nice place, and get over it when the person who actually knows what they're doing doesn't emotionally suck their *** to garner their favor.
You can't please everybody, and it's insane to try. Please enlighten me as to the point of being an *** to someone who has done nothing to you.
Please, I would love to hear this.
There is a big difference between doing your job for said person, regardless of what it is, while being kind, and totally sucking up to them. I in no way shape or form suck up to people I deal with, yet I am still quite kind to them. It's called tone of voice, body language, and in what manner you answer their questions.
No, you can't please everybody, but that's no reason to not please anybody.
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree

Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present

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