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 Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 09:44:23
It's simple... Ask yourself "Hey self! Do you want to marry this girl?" If you reply "Yes!" to the question quickly then you go buy the ring and you give her that damn ring... If you say "No!" then do the opposite (Don't buy the ring, don't propose). If you hesitate see the advice for No!
Phoenix.Elspetta
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-07 09:45:35
Nothing wrong with bickering! My BF and I have been together for 8 years, we live together, have a child together, and we still talk on the phone every morning while I am driving to work, every evening when I am driving home, and we text most of the day. That is an excellent quality in a significant other, because it means you enjoy talking to the other!
The real question is ... Do you want to get married? Are you ready for the inevitable; when will I have grandkids or when are you having babies? (even if you don't plan on having them anytime soon, the questions will still come).
For me; I have already been married and don't really want to do it again. What my BF and I have between us is awesome and I like it the way it is. I'm also 36, so there is no pressure from family to settle down and get married. Marriage to me (both of us really, which makes it that much better) is just a piece of paper that tells people that we have committed to each other. I don't need that piece of paper, because I think what we do on a daily basis proves that we are committed to each other.
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Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 09:47:03
Why does everyone forget the tax benes!!!! its the piece of paper and tax benes!!! Tell em Zah!
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-07 09:47:11
Damn it... You've won this round, old man! Do I at least get the slushie machine? I take that to the grave.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-07 09:49:00
@Row: Does the thought of growing old with her scare you or does it sound alright? Gotta remember that neither of you will be young forever.
Phoenix.Elspetta
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-07 09:49:05
Why does everyone forget the tax benes!!!! its the piece of paper and tax benes!!! Tell em Zah! Well technically for us its not. I get back WAY more taxes filing as head of household and claiming our son. The house is in my name, so I get to write off everything. If we were to file jointly, we would probably not get anything back because his ex is a snatch! :)
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2012-05-07 09:49:17
Why does everyone forget the tax benes!!!! its the piece of paper and tax benes!!! Tell em Zah! >.>; That's why mommy and daddy have the barrier in between their beds.
Damn it... You've won this round, old man! Do I at least get the slushie machine? I take that to the grave. Damn! D:
Ok, Chem time. I'll be back to you within the next two hours! AWAAAAAAAY!
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-07 09:50:04
Good luck Spath! Give 'em hell!
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 09:51:46
Why does everyone forget the tax benes!!!! its the piece of paper and tax benes!!! Tell em Zah! >.>; That's why mommy and daddy have the barrier in between their beds. It's why you're still alive!
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 09:52:40
Why does everyone forget the tax benes!!!! its the piece of paper and tax benes!!! Tell em Zah! Well technically for us its not. I get back WAY more taxes filing as head of household and claiming our son. The house is in my name, so I get to write off everything. If we were to file jointly, we would probably not get anything back because his ex is a snatch! :) I have no idea how an ex being a snatch factors into this... does not compute!
Edit: not saying I don't believe you lol... just saying I don't get what is going on with that and since you said snatch I lol'd a bit.
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 Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-07 09:54:53
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-07 09:55:34
Top o' the morning, Zah!
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 09:56:04
/tips hat
Phoenix.Elspetta
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-07 09:57:59
I have no idea how an ex being a snatch factors into this... does not compute! She screwed him with alimony, even though she made more money then him. So for years they were garnishing his wages, even though his wages didn't cover 1/2 of the alimony she was awarded in court. When she found out I was pregnant, she filed a grievance against him had him arrested for back pay, which caused him to lose his job and put him on probation for 5 years. Now he has a record, which has made it incredibly hard for him to find a decent job. He is lucky to get hired on in retail because of background checks and whatnot. So basically he kept falling behind in alimony payments, paying what he could when he could. She finally got remarried and he doesn't owe her new payments, but he still owes the back payments, which is garnished at tax time. So basically, my income taxes would be garnished until his back pay is paid off, even though he doesn't contribute to the taxes I pay each year.
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-07 09:59:23
Row's going to pop the question?
That's just...Daaawww...Awww!
Phoenix.Elspetta
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-07 09:59:53
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 Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2012-05-07 10:00:04
Honestly, how do you live in your country.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-07 10:00:47
I have no idea how an ex being a snatch factors into this... does not compute! She screwed him with alimony, even though she made more money then him. So for years they were garnishing his wages, even though his wages didn't cover 1/2 of the alimony she was awarded in court. When she found out I was pregnant, she filed a grievance against him had him arrested for back pay, which caused him to lose his job and put him on probation for 5 years. Now he has a record, which has made it incredibly hard for him to find a decent job. He is lucky to get hired on in retail because of background checks and whatnot. So basically he kept falling behind in alimony payments, paying what he could when he could. She finally got remarried and he doesn't owe her new payments, but he still owes the back payments, which is garnished at tax time. So basically, my income taxes would be garnished until his back pay is paid off, even though he doesn't contribute to the taxes I pay each year. American judicial system: Screwing people over since 1776.
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 10:07:27
Since 1789 man! C'mon!
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 10:09:09
Honestly, how do you live in your country. Quite comfortably actually.
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Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2012-05-07 10:09:23
Don't you do it, Row.
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-07 10:09:42
I have no idea how an ex being a snatch factors into this... does not compute! She screwed him with alimony, even though she made more money then him. So for years they were garnishing his wages, even though his wages didn't cover 1/2 of the alimony she was awarded in court. When she found out I was pregnant, she filed a grievance against him had him arrested for back pay, which caused him to lose his job and put him on probation for 5 years. Now he has a record, which has made it incredibly hard for him to find a decent job. He is lucky to get hired on in retail because of background checks and whatnot. So basically he kept falling behind in alimony payments, paying what he could when he could. She finally got remarried and he doesn't owe her new payments, but he still owes the back payments, which is garnished at tax time. So basically, my income taxes would be garnished until his back pay is paid off, even though he doesn't contribute to the taxes I pay each year.
Jesus tap-dancing Christ! What a vindictive Cunty Magoo!
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 10:10:02
Well I'm kinda indifferent on marriage. I'm sure I want to spend the rest of my life with this one, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. But the idea of just being engaged sounds appealing to her. I think she'll be more "at ease" if we're engaged because she's had some bad relationships in the past. Just remember to spend like 12 years salary on the ring! That's how it goes right?
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 10:11:09
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Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 10:12:30
Don't women usually take their boyfriends and look at rings and go "I like this style and shape and this color. Don't forget!" Do they? That sounds silly...
The surprise is better man! just make sure you get her ring size or make sure the guy you buy it from will refit it for you after.
Edit: be smooth about it though... buy her a pretty ring for (insert next upcoming special event) and then have that fitted or whatever.
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-05-07 10:15:10
Well I'm kinda indifferent on marriage. I'm sure I want to spend the rest of my life with this one, and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. But the idea of just being engaged sounds appealing to her. I think she'll be more "at ease" if we're engaged because she's had some bad relationships in the past. Just remember to spend like 12 years salary on the ring! That's how it goes right?
That's not a formal rule. :/
I forgot what the thing behind that is. I thought it was just two or three months salary, but I could be wrong.
Anyway, if I were a guy, I would just take the gal to pick it out. Girls have different tastes. Some gals like a more modern cut, some like something more subdued, and some like something ridiculously ostentatious.
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-07 10:16:14
Don't women usually take their boyfriends and look at rings and go "I like this style and shape and this color. Don't forget!" Do they? That sounds silly... The surprise is better man! just make sure you get her ring size or make sure the guy you buy it from will refit it for you after. Silly...? Or responsible? Personally I think engagement rings are more about going out on your own and getting something special for her rather than having it picked out by her and being sent to get it lol... where's the sense of surprise or spontinaeity?!?!
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
Pics worth referencing: 
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Fenrir.Scragg said: Code Rowland 29488 2007-06-24 16:06:00
Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
Flionheart 22174 2008-11-17 14:28:15
Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
Mabrook 8356 2008-07-01 00:53:38
Marzbarz 7723 2010-01-10 14:12:5
Join date added, banned users filtered.
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