Yeah, it sucks to play while I'm here, I get disconnected a lot and lag a ton too. I don't usually have any trouble stunning as /dnc, but the spells take some more time.
I'm almost completing the Dawn of Delectability quest to get the "all jobs" dagger for BLU/dnc. I'll give it a shot as BLU/dnc later on.
I almost managed to solo Bria on WAR/dnc with 3 regen atmas. I'll have to try BLU/dnc with the stuns, some evasion atma and luck. It just sucks to struggle to get the KIs and then die while at it. 18 helms left!!
Dagger quest
I do have SMN and BST and MC, DG atmas. I just hate to "solo" stuff as BST... sitting and watching the fight from afar is not fun at all.