Are you asking people to help you pop a single VWNM once every month?
This is what we call an analogy. It's helpful when people disagree about topics, to agree about different scenarios, then compare the differences between them. Now that you've learned what an analogy is, do you see how i used it in my post? If you don't count the time between tasks, like a month between favors, then you shouldn't count the hour between VWNM.
And in between, unless you're just continuously doing other things with the same person and interrupting that whenever the VWNMs are back up, there is time involved in arranging to go out ("hey, you free now?" "no, but I will be in 30 minutes"), stopping what you're doing to change jobs and go out, etc.
Changing jobs takes maybe 10 seconds, tops, but yeah I'll give you it's actually 5 minutes and 10 seconds. For the first one. Good point.
No, I wouldn't ask them to stand around doing nothing for an hour while we wait for respawns, that's insanely stupid.
Do you really need me to write this out in crayons for you? Have you guys jever had a friendship or a linkshell before? Here's how I go about this stuff:
After finishing a sortie run: "hey, anyone got a colorless abyssite and mind popping a few chesma for me?"
Ask in linkshell: "anyone available to pop a few chesmas?"
Ask in discord: "hey, anyone available to help me out with some chesmas?" Then they say sure, I'll be on around 6, are you free then?
It's not rocket surgery and doesn't need to be done this instant. I can wait until tomorrow if I need to.
But actually asking someone to stop what they're doing and spend their time on THAT?
See my examples above if you need help imagining how having friends works. You aren't demanding they drop what they're doing, you just ask at an opportune time when they're not busy. Or you plan it ahead. Just like anything else.
Hey, anyone available to help synergize a fotia torque?
Hey, can someone open the three mage gate for me?
After this dynamis run, anyone wanna run some nyzul?
You know, things that are much easier and more efficient with 2 people rather than 1. Like VWNM.
If anyone's on carbuncle and needs someone to pop a T2 VWNM, let me know. It's not a big deal at all, it's a tiny time investment that really saves you a lot of hassle and I don't mind, because it's basic human decency.
If I'm on schedule for 8 hours, and end up getting asked to do work that only actually takes 5 min per hour for 8 hours, should I get paid for my whole 8 hour shift, or just the 40 minutes I was actually doing the task? Apparently if Maletaru is the boss, his workers get paid only for 40min.
Explain to be how employment relationships are the same as friendships. Am I contracting you to do 8 hours of everything I ask you to do? Are you required to be in my party for 8 hours straight? Do you need 10 more examples how this analogy completely falls apart? If you told your boss you worked on that project for 8 hours, wouldn't he think you're an alien with no concept of how humans keep track of time?