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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:49:30
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I'd call you a *** for ending a friendship just cause it got boring regardless
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:50:25
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...
We're currently the friends with benefits. Which is cool when it first starts but ***I want a little more and she knows that.
You sure she still doesn't want more? If it's just ending the sex part then it shouldn't be that big of a deal and upset her much.

Yeah I've talked to her about what I personally want, and she's like "I love the physical thing, and what if the emotional thing gets messed up and we're no longer friends?"

Kinda the backwards version of you're my great friend I don't wanna date and possibly damage the friendship imo.
I personally don't get that... If your sexing someone up you've pretty much already taken the steps to ruin the friendship.... besides thats part of what relationships are all about, taking a risk on someone and exploring what you have together... but yeah idk...
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:51:26
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Leviathan.Novax said:
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...
We're currently the friends with benefits. Which is cool when it first starts but ***I want a little more and she knows that.
You sure she still doesn't want more? If it's just ending the sex part then it shouldn't be that big of a deal and upset her much.
Yeah I've talked to her about what I personally want, and she's like "I love the physical thing, and what if the emotional thing gets messed up and we're no longer friends?"

Kinda the backwards version of you're my great friend I don't wanna date and possibly damage the friendship imo.
Yes but are you sure she doesn't feel differently now? Things like this could change that.

Also I *** hate that I don't want to I don't want to damage the friendship bs. Seriously does anyone actually buy that? What you only date people you don't know and wont be friends with or don't like?
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:52:06
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...
We're currently the friends with benefits. Which is cool when it first starts but ***I want a little more and she knows that.
You sure she still doesn't want more? If it's just ending the sex part then it shouldn't be that big of a deal and upset her much.

Yeah I've talked to her about what I personally want, and she's like "I love the physical thing, and what if the emotional thing gets messed up and we're no longer friends?"

Kinda the backwards version of you're my great friend I don't wanna date and possibly damage the friendship imo.
I personally don't get that... If your sexing someone up you've pretty much already taken the steps to ruin the friendship.... besides thats part of what relationships are all about, taking a risk on someone and exploring what you have together... but yeah idk...

Yeah, sound logic, Idk either
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:54:43
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Also I *** hate that I don't want to I don't want to damage the friendship bs. Seriously does anyone actually buy that? What you only date people you don't know and wont be friends with or don't like?

I had that ***pulled on me in like 11th grade, this girl was my best friend for a few years. She'd always wanted to date but i was hardcore focused playing basketball that I had no time for silly love! Then i was ready and got that ***..
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-31 19:55:44
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Well you really can't have sex and a friendship. I tired it with my ex. Lasted about a week until she called me crying saying she misses me. My question now is do I try again to have relationship or move on??
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:57:52
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Well you really can't have sex and a friendship. I tired it with my ex. Lasted about a week until she called me crying saying she misses me. My question now is do I try again to have relationship or move on??
yup yup it usually always turns out the same....
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:57:59
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Well you really can't have sex and a friendship. I tired it with my ex. Lasted about a week until she called me crying saying she misses me. My question now is do I try again to have relationship or move on??
Do you think it could work? Do you want to?
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:58:58
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Also I *** hate that I don't want to I don't want to damage the friendship bs. Seriously does anyone actually buy that? What you only date people you don't know and wont be friends with or don't like?
I had that ***pulled on me in like 11th grade, this girl was my best friend for a few years. She'd always wanted to date but i was hardcore focused playing basketball that I had no time for silly love! Then i was ready and got that ***..
Lol not that long ago I got told if I had been single before we became better friends maybe. I mean really is that supposed to make me feel better? Cause it doesn't. Still alone
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:59:37
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Well you really can't have sex and a friendship. I tired it with my ex. Lasted about a week until she called me crying saying she misses me. My question now is do I try again to have relationship or move on??

If she's worth it brosef, hard to come by a good woman these days.
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 20:01:01
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Also I *** hate that I don't want to I don't want to damage the friendship bs. Seriously does anyone actually buy that? What you only date people you don't know and wont be friends with or don't like?
I had that ***pulled on me in like 11th grade, this girl was my best friend for a few years. She'd always wanted to date but i was hardcore focused playing basketball that I had no time for silly love! Then i was ready and got that ***..
Lol not that long ago I got told if I had been single before we became better friends maybe. I mean really is that supposed to make me feel better? Cause it doesn't. Still alone

Yeah that's a nice backhand compliment(think that's the right term?)
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-31 20:01:06
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It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 20:02:25
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.

If you wanna do it, then get on over there!
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-31 20:02:32
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Well you really can't have sex and a friendship. I tired it with my ex. Lasted about a week until she called me crying saying she misses me. My question now is do I try again to have relationship or move on??

If she's worth it brosef, hard to come by a good woman these days.
Dude, your telling me!! No problem finding a women, but a good one. That is tough for sure.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 20:02:39
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
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Also I *** hate that I don't want to I don't want to damage the friendship bs. Seriously does anyone actually buy that? What you only date people you don't know and wont be friends with or don't like?
I had that ***pulled on me in like 11th grade, this girl was my best friend for a few years. She'd always wanted to date but i was hardcore focused playing basketball that I had no time for silly love! Then i was ready and got that ***..
Lol not that long ago I got told if I had been single before we became better friends maybe. I mean really is that supposed to make me feel better? Cause it doesn't. Still alone
I just always take that as a no thank you but your cool still want to be friends? From what I've come to understand some people would really rather not hurt someones feelings or just avoid confrontation all together so they usually stretch the truth or lie to make it go down smoother. What they don't realize is that its kind of more shitty to get the *** line instead of just a simple yes or no... at least thats my opinion on the matter...
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 20:03:57
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.
Don't let her know you said women!
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 20:04:44
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
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Also I *** hate that I don't want to I don't want to damage the friendship bs. Seriously does anyone actually buy that? What you only date people you don't know and wont be friends with or don't like?
I had that ***pulled on me in like 11th grade, this girl was my best friend for a few years. She'd always wanted to date but i was hardcore focused playing basketball that I had no time for silly love! Then i was ready and got that ***..
Lol not that long ago I got told if I had been single before we became better friends maybe. I mean really is that supposed to make me feel better? Cause it doesn't. Still alone
I just always take that as a no thank you but your cool still want to be friends? From what I've come to understand some people would really rather not hurt someones feelings or just avoid confrontation all together so they usually stretch the truth or lie to make it go down smoother. What they don't realize is that its kind of more shitty to get the *** line instead of just a simple yes or no... at least thats my opinion on the matter...
Honesty would be nice
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-31 20:05:02
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It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.

If you wanna do it, then get on over there!
I would but I am stuck at this photo shoot for awhile still. I will she here this weekend I think.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 20:06:17
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
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It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.
If you wanna do it, then get on over there!
I would but I am stuck at this photo shoot for awhile still. I will she here this weekend I think.
So do it after your shoot
 
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 20:09:14
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I'd call you a *** for ending a friendship just cause it got boring regardless
Haha!
Hah,
ha---
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Yeah I'm talking about you so what!?!
Good because I was loling at you!
You lol at everyone for reasons that rarely matter. So who cares?
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-31 20:13:50
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.
If you wanna do it, then get on over there!
I would but I am stuck at this photo shoot for awhile still. I will she here this weekend I think.
So do it after your shoot
She works at 7am, lol. Not getting up at that time after today!'
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 20:18:34
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Leviathan.Novax said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
It's her birthday today. Got her a present and she wants me to come over tonight. But I am busy till later. As for working on it . I was thinking I would try. Still have feelings for the women.
If you wanna do it, then get on over there!
I would but I am stuck at this photo shoot for awhile still. I will she here this weekend I think.
So do it after your shoot
She works at 7am, lol. Not getting up at that time after today!'
So it's not like you have to get up at 7am ;). Besides if she's really interested she'd consider it
 
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 20:26:56
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Pandemonium.Spicyryan said:
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I'd call you a *** for ending a friendship just cause it got boring regardless
Haha! Hah, ha--- h----
Yeah I'm talking about you so what!?!
Good because I was loling at you!
You lol at everyone for reasons that rarely matter. So who cares?
No one.
Speaking of which how's our favorite ah quitter doing?
 
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By Serj 2011-03-31 21:27:07
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Women will be the end of me. Seriously.

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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-31 21:28:43
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Serj said:
Women will be the end of me. Seriously.

Inb4 Ryan something something Serj's ***.

that one that viewed your profile was purdy
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By Serj 2011-03-31 21:31:48
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
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Women will be the end of me. Seriously.

Inb4 Ryan something something Serj's ***.

that one that viewed your profile was purdy

Inorite?
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-31 21:32:30
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Serj said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Serj said:
Women will be the end of me. Seriously.

Inb4 Ryan something something Serj's ***.

that one that viewed your profile was purdy

Inorite?

atleast you're getting attention
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