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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-31 15:19:41
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
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Sounds so familiar lol but good luck man and fair enough. Have you ever had success with this kind of behavior before? I've found it a risky venture since she might want more but value the friendship too much to risk it or it can confuse younger women about their desires.

edit back - you mean you've wanted to try a few sushi bars?
I dunno, this is a new thought process I'm trying out :o

Yea there's a few sushi bars in town that I haven't been to and I want to try more sushi.

sushi is awesome
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-03-31 15:25:45
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
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Sounds so familiar lol but good luck man and fair enough. Have you ever had success with this kind of behavior before? I've found it a risky venture since she might want more but value the friendship too much to risk it or it can confuse younger women about their desires.

edit back - you mean you've wanted to try a few sushi bars?
I dunno, this is a new thought process I'm trying out :o

Yea there's a few sushi bars in town that I haven't been to and I want to try more sushi.

sushi is awesome
but sometimes expensive
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-03-31 15:28:44
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great sushi is expensive, but worth the price.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-03-31 15:29:15
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
But what kinds are good? I don't like spicy things usually.

The only sushi roll I've had was Alligator roll when I went to Florida to visit a friend. And then some crappy store bought sushi I'm not sure what it was, it had one of those thing pieces of shrimp on top. And I guess I had a spam thingy from a convenience store in Hawaii.
theres lots of kinda that are good, depending on your taste.
Theres the super basic california roll/ tuna rolls
or you can have eel, salmon, makeral, yellowtail etc etc.
can always have something basic like this
or go for something little crazy like thisI suggest looking at the menu and seeing what kinds of fish/toppings were used on the item you want
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-03-31 15:32:33
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
But what kinds are good? I don't like spicy things usually.

The only sushi roll I've had was Alligator roll when I went to Florida to visit a friend. And then some crappy store bought sushi I'm not sure what it was, it had one of those thing pieces of shrimp on top. And I guess I had a spam thingy from a convenience store in Hawaii.
Lol it depends on what kind of fish you like. Also they have it prepared many different ways when you look at the rolls depending on what you want in it.
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By Artemicion 2011-03-31 15:39:52
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Try a tiger roll.
Spicy tuna roll wrapped with avacado and tempura all with a delicious sauce.
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By Odin.Liela 2011-03-31 15:44:41
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California rolls are great for beginners. They are just crab meat (or crab imitation meat :/) and rice, usually with a small bit of avocado. California Crunch rolls are the same, but with crunchies on top. If you like those, venture out into different sushi types. They just seem the best beginner sushi, to me.

Tuna and salmon make good stuffs, too. One of my friends loves squid (or was it octopus? I forget), which seemed kinda gross to me but I'll have to try it. He loved it.
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-03-31 15:45:47
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SPICY ROLLS WITH PEPPER STICKS OR GTFO!

with Salmon of course
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 15:58:18
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I think you guys overthink things too much lol... just go out and have some fun and whatever happens happens....
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-03-31 16:02:17
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tobiko/masago with quail eggs!!
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:11:51
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weee
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:27:18
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So, I have a casual friend and I was dead set on ending it today cause it's gotten boring. I call her up, and she answers the phone sobbing.
Oh god what's going on? Did I forget i told someone and they snitched? Oh god x.x

No she tells me she has cancer and is super scared. I don't really know if she has feelings or what, but I thought if she does and I end this right after she tells me she's about to fight her cancer how much of a *** would I look like...

So I talked to her for a bit and then hung up, now I'm confused :(
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-31 19:28:45
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Leviathan.Novax said:
So, I have a casual friend and I was dead set on ending it today cause it's gotten boring. I call her up, and she answers the phone sobbing.
Oh god what's going on? Did I forget i told someone and they snitched? Oh god x.x

No she tells me she has cancer and is super scared. I don't really know if she has feelings or what, but I thought if she does and I end this right after she tells me she's about to fight her cancer how much of a *** would I look like...

So I talked to her for a bit and then hung up, now I'm confused :(

now that kind of sucks...

why were you gonna end a friendship though @_@ just wondering
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:33:22
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I'd call you a *** for ending a friendship just cause it got boring regardless
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:34:10
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How does one become dead set on ending a casual friendship? That;s odd to me.... you should have just let it drift off and not called her at all. I also have a hard time believing it as all that casual if you think her finding out you don't want to be friends anymore would make her cry...

As for the cancer bit... that's can be some pretty serious ***as I'm sure you're aware. I'd say make a decision here and now because it seems, at least to me, that when people are going through life and death situations they need the people there to be there for them. It's not about you anymore but you shouldn't feel forced to be there for someone if you don't want to be. So that's my two cents....

I still thinks its weird.... do people actually end friendships like relationships? call em up and be like yeah this isn't working out for me peace! I just always kinda drifted away from friends...
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:35:28
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
I'd call you a *** for ending a friendship just cause it got boring regardless

I just have a hard time believing this was only a friendship i just keep getting the picture that hes not getting what he wants out of the situation so hes done... but I've been wrong before... a lot...
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:40:04
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:41:12
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Leviathan.Novax said:
Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:42:53
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...

We're currently the friends with benefits. Which is cool when it first starts but ***I want a little more and she knows that.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:43:09
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But yeah that never works out... someone always gets attached/wants more/wants different/etc...

End the sex and stay friends with her then... shouldn't continue on with something because you feel guilted into it...
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:43:21
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
I still thinks its weird.... do people actually end friendships like relationships? call em up and be like yeah this isn't working out for me peace! I just always kinda drifted away from friends...
I have sorta. But it's more like calling it.

Like when the other person is clearly drifted away and clearly isn't making any sort of effort to even return any messages let alone keep in contact... like when you see them talking other people and posting but not answering messages on the same medium for weeks. Or best is when they relay messages thru their other friends when all of you are available at the same time because they are supposedly too busy...
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:45:00
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
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I still thinks its weird.... do people actually end friendships like relationships? call em up and be like yeah this isn't working out for me peace! I just always kinda drifted away from friends...
I have sorta. But it's more like calling it.

Like when the other person is clearly drifted away and clearly isn't making any sort of effort to even return any messages let alone keep in contact... like when you see them talking other people and posting but not answering messages on the same medium for weeks. Or best is when they relay messages thru their other friends when all of you are available at the same time because they are supposedly too busy...
I hear ya but that to me is when I would just drift off too and let it die. I wasn't aware people actually broke it off. Nothing wrong with that and all just new to me.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-31 19:45:10
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Leviathan.Novax said:
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...
We're currently the friends with benefits. Which is cool when it first starts but ***I want a little more and she knows that.
You sure she still doesn't want more? If it's just ending the sex part then it shouldn't be that big of a deal and upset her much.
 
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-03-31 19:47:42
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
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Casual sex...is what I was getting at, I'd like to remain friends of course she's really cool but we both want two different things.
See that makes more sense...
We're currently the friends with benefits. Which is cool when it first starts but ***I want a little more and she knows that.
You sure she still doesn't want more? If it's just ending the sex part then it shouldn't be that big of a deal and upset her much.

Yeah I've talked to her about what I personally want, and she's like "I love the physical thing, and what if the emotional thing gets messed up and we're no longer friends?"

Kinda the backwards version of you're my great friend I don't wanna date and possibly damage the friendship imo.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-31 19:48:00
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If your the one that wants more this could be your time to stick by her and maybe she'll realize something about you she didn't before too. But in all honesty when it comes down to stuff like this listen to you heart (corny I know) and go with it.

I've learned from experience that its far worse to carry on falsely then come clean when its there....
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