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Romantically frustrated?
 Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-28 09:00:52
So in this 85 pages of what not and so forth did a bunch of you randomly start making dating site profiles?
 Phoenix.Fondue
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-03-28 09:01:17
Quote: all joking aside people can meet anywhere and make a sucessful relationship.
Bahamut.Dasva
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 09:05:12
Lakshmi.Flavin said: So in this 85 pages of what not and so forth did a bunch of you randomly start making dating site profiles? yeah looks like a few people did.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 09:06:56
Odin.Headstrong said: i met a cute guy again today and again totally messed up.. had no sleep, so feeling like ***, looking like ***and kinda hissed at that poor dude when he was just trying to be nice.. w Lol did you really hiss at him?
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 09:11:35
Ramuh.Rowland said: Odin.Blazza said: Ramuh.Rowland said: So a girl messaged me last night. So far I'm not impressed. Here's how the conversation has gone so far. Her: hey hows it going Me: Hey, it's going alright, and yourself? Her: not 2 bad wat r u up 2 Me: Playing xbox, you? Do you play any video games? Her: sum on the wii Me: That's cool. So what's up? This morning -- Her: lol sorry fell asleep Yea this isn't gonna go anywhere. It's not gonna go anywhere 'cause she fell asleep? I have no idea on the back story here, but maybe she was just sleepy! lol. Pretty much what wombat said. I don't mind the fact she fell asleep. But if you can't use proper grammar when talking to and getting to know your potential future love interest. That just bothers me. Maybe it's just me but if you message someone other than because they're attractive, you should at least have some questions or show interest that you want to know more about them other than "what's up?". Hey row wnt 2 get together 2 night fer sum sxy timez?
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-03-28 09:12:18
Standards on a dating site? I don't even
You gotta start somewhere! You sound like you don't really even want to pursue anything
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-28 09:15:31
Phoenix.Fondue said: Standards on a dating site? I don't even
You gotta start somewhere! You sound like you don't really even want to pursue anything
you havent seen some of the "ladies" on this dating website
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 09:16:44
Phoenix.Fondue said: Standards on a dating site? I don't even You gotta start somewhere!
You sound like you don't really even want to pursue anything You should help him out than!
By Wombat 2011-03-28 09:17:08
Bahamut.Dasva said: Ramuh.Rowland said: Odin.Blazza said: Ramuh.Rowland said: So a girl messaged me last night. So far I'm not impressed. Here's how the conversation has gone so far. Her: hey hows it going Me: Hey, it's going alright, and yourself? Her: not 2 bad wat r u up 2 Me: Playing xbox, you? Do you play any video games? Her: sum on the wii Me: That's cool. So what's up? This morning -- Her: lol sorry fell asleep Yea this isn't gonna go anywhere. It's not gonna go anywhere 'cause she fell asleep? I have no idea on the back story here, but maybe she was just sleepy! lol. Pretty much what wombat said. I don't mind the fact she fell asleep. But if you can't use proper grammar when talking to and getting to know your potential future love interest. That just bothers me. Maybe it's just me but if you message someone other than because they're attractive, you should at least have some questions or show interest that you want to know more about them other than "what's up?". Hey row wnt 2 get together 2 night fer sum sxy timez? Needs less punctuation.
I wasn't trying to say everyone must have proper grammar, but it isn't unreasonable to expect something more than the texting-grammar of a middle schooler when engaging someone for the first time.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-28 09:19:30
Wombat said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Ramuh.Rowland said: Odin.Blazza said: Ramuh.Rowland said: So a girl messaged me last night. So far I'm not impressed. Here's how the conversation has gone so far. Her: hey hows it going Me: Hey, it's going alright, and yourself? Her: not 2 bad wat r u up 2 Me: Playing xbox, you? Do you play any video games? Her: sum on the wii Me: That's cool. So what's up? This morning -- Her: lol sorry fell asleep Yea this isn't gonna go anywhere. It's not gonna go anywhere 'cause she fell asleep? I have no idea on the back story here, but maybe she was just sleepy! lol. Pretty much what wombat said. I don't mind the fact she fell asleep. But if you can't use proper grammar when talking to and getting to know your potential future love interest. That just bothers me. Maybe it's just me but if you message someone other than because they're attractive, you should at least have some questions or show interest that you want to know more about them other than "what's up?". Hey row wnt 2 get together 2 night fer sum sxy timez? Needs less punctuation.
I wasn't trying to say everyone must have proper grammar, but it isn't unreasonable to expect something more than the texting-grammar of a middle schooler when engaging someone for the first time.
grammer are impotent
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-28 09:24:20
Ramuh.Rowland said: lol impotent.
well i mean
it's somewhat relevant to the conversation
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-03-28 09:32:16
I find it romantically frustrating when the chick Im going after is going after another guy who is a bigger douchenozzle than I am. It makes me think that she wants to not only be annoyed, but belittled, declawed, abused, and traumatized by the bigger douchebag.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 09:41:47
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: I find it romantically frustrating when the chick Im going after is going after another guy who is a bigger douchenozzle than I am. It makes me think that she wants to not only be annoyed, but belittled, declawed, abused, and traumatized by the bigger douchebag. Quite possibly. Met a few chicks like that. Some people get off on that kind of stuff. Just like some do on doing it to others
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-03-28 09:48:30
Bahamut.Dasva said: Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: I find it romantically frustrating when the chick Im going after is going after another guy who is a bigger douchenozzle than I am. It makes me think that she wants to not only be annoyed, but belittled, declawed, abused, and traumatized by the bigger douchebag. Quite possibly. Met a few chicks like that. Some people get off on that kind of stuff. Just like some do on doing it to others but thats not the sad part, the sad part comes when she gets her face smashed in, her heart ripped out, and her vagina shattered by said bigger douchenozzle, then she would run back to a guy whose more docile and mannered to be "comforted". Sure, she'd be a great pity *** a few times but after few hundred bucks in therapy sessions and plastic surgery, she'll be back on the streets looking for a replay. Its like these *** have *** Alzheimers or something.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 09:56:12
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: I find it romantically frustrating when the chick Im going after is going after another guy who is a bigger douchenozzle than I am. It makes me think that she wants to not only be annoyed, but belittled, declawed, abused, and traumatized by the bigger douchebag. Quite possibly. Met a few chicks like that. Some people get off on that kind of stuff. Just like some do on doing it to others but thats not the sad part, the sad part comes when she gets her face smashed in, her heart ripped out, and her vagina shattered by said bigger douchenozzle, then she would run back to a guy whose more docile and mannered to be "comforted". Sure, she'd be a great pity *** a few times but after few hundred bucks in therapy sessions and plastic surgery, she'll be back on the streets looking for a replay. Its like these *** have *** Alzheimers or something. Lol yeah alot of chicks seem like that one way or another. Go for some random excitement till it burns them too bad. Go back to something that is really better for them until they forget how bad it was and get bored and then ruin what they had and start again
 Ramuh.Vinvv
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-03-28 10:02:11
Bahamut.Dasva said: Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: I find it romantically frustrating when the chick Im going after is going after another guy who is a bigger douchenozzle than I am. It makes me think that she wants to not only be annoyed, but belittled, declawed, abused, and traumatized by the bigger douchebag. Quite possibly. Met a few chicks like that. Some people get off on that kind of stuff. Just like some do on doing it to others but thats not the sad part, the sad part comes when she gets her face smashed in, her heart ripped out, and her vagina shattered by said bigger douchenozzle, then she would run back to a guy whose more docile and mannered to be "comforted". Sure, she'd be a great pity *** a few times but after few hundred bucks in therapy sessions and plastic surgery, she'll be back on the streets looking for a replay. Its like these *** have *** Alzheimers or something. Lol yeah alot of chicks seem like that one way or another. Go for some random excitement till it burns them too bad. Go back to something that is really better for them until they forget how bad it was and get bored and then ruin what they had and start again it's because the tv, magazines, and our culture in general has taught these people to idolize a certain lifestyle and to covet certain things, and the fact that it's in-attainable in reality doesn't phase them so they essentially are romantic vampires in that way, they get what they want from you and if you play all your cards honestly, you are going to sucked and then tossed like the living corpse you are at that moment lol.
:D
but that's only speaking of the negative aspect when it comes to females.
males have the whole "***" thing to deal with in a to be or not to be fashion, coupled with the same self-image issues and so on and so forth, because usually the crazy ones on either side have a health dose of self image issues in some way shape/form
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-28 10:10:18
Ask her to use sentences that consist of more than 10 characters
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-03-28 10:17:16
felt special taking one of the personality tests thats like
"are you a nazi test" apparently i think like one of the resistance...only 5% of people get that score >_> soo wooo lol
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-03-28 10:40:32
Ramuh.Rowland said: This girl is really giving me nothing to go on.
Her: lol sorry I feel asleep
Me: No problem, I understand looking for potential relationships can take a lot of energy :P
Her: lol yep
yeah dude *** that
nothing i hate more than goddamn 1 word responses
and then later "y didnt you text me back lolz"
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-28 10:41:30
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: I find it romantically frustrating when the chick Im going after is going after another guy who is a bigger douchenozzle than I am. It makes me think that she wants to not only be annoyed, but belittled, declawed, abused, and traumatized by the bigger douchebag. Quite possibly. Met a few chicks like that. Some people get off on that kind of stuff. Just like some do on doing it to others but thats not the sad part, the sad part comes when she gets her face smashed in, her heart ripped out, and her vagina shattered by said bigger douchenozzle, then she would run back to a guy whose more docile and mannered to be "comforted". Sure, she'd be a great pity *** a few times but after few hundred bucks in therapy sessions and plastic surgery, she'll be back on the streets looking for a replay. Its like these *** have *** Alzheimers or something.
Somebody is bitter....
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-03-28 10:44:47
aww ; - ; that sucks. the problem i hate the most is that you're interested in this one person and you have a relation with them but they end up dating/marrying someone whose just like you but isn't
Phoenix.Fondue
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-03-28 11:14:14
i just fall for the oblivious ones :(
Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-28 12:05:20
Phoenix.Fondue said: i just fall for the oblivious ones :(
How are they oblivious? Because they don't see you as the one they want?
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-03-28 12:27:53
Lakshmi.Flavin said: Phoenix.Fondue said: i just fall for the oblivious ones :(
How are they oblivious? Because they don't see you as the one they want? that seems like a kind of small-scale scope on the word oblivious and the facets of the said word.
it could mean that or it could mean that they are oblivious to the feelings of those around them.
but i find the word selfish fits much better for that kind of thing.
like the ones that will lie to you "so you won't feel hurt" when that in and of itself causes the said hurt because lies have a pretty good way at boiling up to the surface when it comes to that.
i find those who can't just follow the simple concept of ending a relationship before starting a new one to fit into the "oblivious" factor, and there are a lot of those people on both sides.
this is coming from a guy who has dumped and been dumped pretty equally.
the only difference is that i don't dump a girl because i have another on the side, and i find that to be a deplorable act in and of its-self.
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