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 Bahamut.Lolserj
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:19:08
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how does one go from just being friends to more than that

seems weird to me >.>
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:21:26
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my social skills IRL suck :/
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:21:31
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
how does one go from just being friends to more than that

seems weird to me >.>
My first girl litterally just asked to the room in general (only like 5 guys but meh) who wants to be friends with benefits. And you know me... granted I thought she was kidding... odd I kinda miss her. For reasons I can't understand she stopped being a *** and kinda fell for me.
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:21:42
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
how does one go from just being friends to more than that

seems weird to me >.>

if it's not something you can conceive doing

the next time someone of the opposite sex suggests hanging out

even if they aren't up to "standard"

take them up on it

at some point someone will make a move

and instinct kinda takes over from there

luckily it's one of those things that does get easier

ps alcohol certainly doesn't hurt, if she's ridiculously intoxicated, fine, but careful not to get completely smashed yourself
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:22:03
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/

mine too
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-24 08:23:20
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
how does one go from just being friends to more than that

seems weird to me >.>
Sometimes when your nice to them, they think more of it than you do. Always have to becareful of that.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:23:49
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:24:38
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.

that's exactly what i say and people are like no no no people like that
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:24:48
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.

dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:27:03
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you
I have a long way to go for every. And yeah there were huge problems with a couple. Besides this thread is "romantically frustrated." Maybe I am right now! Maybe I've raised my standards and it is making things harder
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:27:33
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.

dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you

but there are no females on the internet
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:28:34
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.

dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you

but there are no females on the internet

well i guess he had to cross that bridge when he came to it :o
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:28:35
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
that's exactly what i say and people are like no no no people like that
Idk. I mean it's one thing to kinda talk about something going on outloud to people around you. It's another thing to just walk up to a person and try to start a conversation. I tend to be creeped out. Granted most the people that do that to me are the kind that don't take a hint and keep going on...
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:29:12
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you
but there are no females on the internet
well i guess he had to cross that bridge when he came to it :o
You joke but something like that almost happened sorta... well her come and see me but meh
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:29:22
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
that's exactly what i say and people are like no no no people like that
Idk. I mean it's one thing to kinda talk about something going on outloud to people around you. It's another thing to just walk up to a person and try to start a conversation. I tend to be creeped out. Granted most the people that do that to me are the kind that don't take a hint and keep going on...

oh you mean like randomly walk up to you without any connection to you in any way?
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:29:37
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you
but there are no females on the internet
well i guess he had to cross that bridge when he came to it :o
You joke but something like that almost happened sorta...

please

do tell
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:30:29
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
that's exactly what i say and people are like no no no people like that
Idk. I mean it's one thing to kinda talk about something going on outloud to people around you. It's another thing to just walk up to a person and try to start a conversation. I tend to be creeped out. Granted most the people that do that to me are the kind that don't take a hint and keep going on...
oh you mean like randomly walk up to you without any connection to you in any way?
Yeah I hate that ***. Damn creepy people.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:31:15
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you
but there are no females on the internet
well i guess he had to cross that bridge when he came to it :o
You joke but something like that almost happened sorta...
please

do tell
Can't she made me promise. Though now she's close to having the operation.
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:33:18
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
my social skills IRL suck :/
mine too
I just don't like most social scenes. And feel uncomfortable forcing my attention on a stranger. I mean wouldn't want some random person talking to me out nowhere.
dasva you flew out and had sex with every female on these boards this ain't FOR you
but there are no females on the internet
well i guess he had to cross that bridge when he came to it :o
You joke but something like that almost happened sorta...
please

do tell
Can't she made me promise. Though now she's close to having the operation.

so THAT'S what happened with ryd

hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
[+]
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:33:26
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
I had a girl do that recently. It was a mixed message though because she was on a dating site.

She randomly IM'd me out of nowhere and she was like "Hi, we're friends now. I live far away but I'm moving near you. I'm too sexy for a boyfriend though, so we're gonna be gaming buddies."

My response:
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that sucks
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:34:51
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seems like having a bunch of exes on a forum would be awkward though
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:35:55
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
so THAT'S what happened with ryd

hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
LMAO. But no. I've seen enough and several other people have too to be fairly sure ryd has looked all female for at least awhile now. I mean she did do that boob slip on that chat room thing we used to do. Though I missed it
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:36:39
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
seems like having a bunch of exes on a forum would be awkward though
Especially when they like making up all kinds of crazy stuff about you :)
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:37:39
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
seems like having a bunch of exes on a forum would be awkward though
Especially when they like making up all kinds of crazy stuff about you :)

how do you even

like wat

im still confused about how you went far enough to sleep with half of the females on ffxiah
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:39:59
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
I rarely even want to talk to exs. I try to cut off all ties with them if I can, but sometimes I'm still nice to them even though I have no reason to be.

I try to be philosophical when they come to complain to me about their problems instead of sympathetic.

just throw a blitzball at their face
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:40:22
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By long ways I way I meant not even close to half.
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By Odin.Headstrong 2011-03-24 08:40:45
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wow this thing is still alive xD

also this

Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well i'm not looking for a girlfriend >.>
but i was kinda happy alone, no plans to change that in a long time.. now i'm romantically frustrated D:!
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:41:38
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
I rarely even want to talk to exs. I try to cut off all ties with them if I can, but sometimes I'm still nice to them even though I have no reason to be.
I guess I'm lucky? that most of them made it easy to not want to be nice to them either again. But that one... it's kinda hard to talk to her.
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