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 Bahamut.Dasva
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 07:07:19
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
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By Sylph.Kimble 2011-03-24 07:07:58
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Seriously, just be your self. If you dont have enough common interest to keep a conversation going then it isnt worth your time.

Ask her about her self, her interests, and talk about your own as well. And make sure you listen to what she has to say so you can give an opinion.
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-24 07:10:23
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
It's a skill, and you are most likely better at it than I.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 07:14:00
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
It's a skill, and you are most likely better at it than I.
Practice I suppose. Navy sorta helped there. But it's a bit harder irl. Or when you have something on the line
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-24 07:19:51
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
It's a skill, and you are most likely better at it than I.
Practice I suppose. Navy sorta helped there. But it's a bit harder irl. Or when you have something on the line
Nothing ventured , nothing gained man!!0
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 07:23:27
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
It's a skill, and you are most likely better at it than I.
Practice I suppose. Navy sorta helped there. But it's a bit harder irl. Or when you have something on the line
Nothing ventured , nothing gained man!!0
Or lost :). I'm so busy now though. Haven't even been on here that much lol
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-24 07:27:16
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
It's a skill, and you are most likely better at it than I.
Practice I suppose. Navy sorta helped there. But it's a bit harder irl. Or when you have something on the line
Nothing ventured , nothing gained man!!0
Or lost :). I'm so busy now though. Haven't even been on here that much lol
Just don't let things get you jaded bro. Everyone has something good or special about them that another would find attractive.
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By Wombat 2011-03-24 07:29:02
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Asura.Sandolphon said:
Another method to get girls is by just babbling about things that sound intellectual. Heres an example: "Kafka, while his works are a shining example of post-war nihilism, was actually a romantic author that dabbled in elements of Duchamp-inspired Dadaism."

SHE WONT KNOW WTF YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT.
And you will be winning. It doesn't have to make sense, trust me, i have no *** clue what a Kafka is.
Every time I hear anything about Kafka, I think of this:
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 07:30:06
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Just smile, and listen if your interested man!!
My smile isn't packaged as nicely as yours
But it seems like you have the gift of gab from your post bro.
To an extent. But talk is just talk lol.
It's a skill, and you are most likely better at it than I.
Practice I suppose. Navy sorta helped there. But it's a bit harder irl. Or when you have something on the line
Nothing ventured , nothing gained man!!0
Or lost :). I'm so busy now though. Haven't even been on here that much lol
Just don't let things get you jaded bro. Everyone has something good or special about them that another would find attractive.
Lol I could tell you some stories that would make you jaded just hearing them!
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By Lakshmi.Seoha 2011-03-24 07:54:42
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37 pages in 3 days!
I missed the freaking party!
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 07:57:42
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Lakshmi.Seoha said:
37 pages in 3 days!
I missed the freaking party!
Well maybe if you were so mamebusy being a mameboss and getting your beauty sleep to maintain that mamebody then you wouldn't have missed it!
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 07:59:34
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
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By Lakshmi.Seoha 2011-03-24 08:01:02
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Lakshmi.Seoha said:
37 pages in 3 days! I missed the freaking party!
Well maybe if you were so mamebusy being a mameboss and getting your beauty sleep to maintain that mamebody then you wouldn't have missed it!

I WAS Busy!! I missed the thread! See? I'm working yo! hahaha~
Wait.. I still *am* busy D:
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:02:56
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Lakshmi.Seoha said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Lakshmi.Seoha said:
37 pages in 3 days! I missed the freaking party!
Well maybe if you were so mamebusy being a mameboss and getting your beauty sleep to maintain that mamebody then you wouldn't have missed it!
I WAS Busy!! I missed the thread! See? I'm working yo! hahaha~
Wait.. I still *am* busy D:
Crack the whip mameboss!
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:03:26
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:03:29
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|
how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.
I could see that. Kinda reminds you of what you were ignoring. /sigh
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-24 08:06:42
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol
It's easy to find one. But one that is a good fit is much harder.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:07:54
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Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol
It's easy to find one. But one that is a good fit is much harder.

im not setting my goals too high in what kind of girl im looking for atm
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:10:05
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
It's easy to find one. But one that is a good fit is much harder.
im not setting my goals too high in what kind of girl im looking for atm
Hehe good fit

And yeah just remember if your standards are too high lower your standards. Would be nice to find a girl that you don't have to though and ya know that actually wants to be with you
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:14:38
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol

want some probably morally questionable advice?

if you've never been in a relationship

go for anything

get the ***, awkwardness, arguments etc. out of the way with whoever you can

and end it when you've gotten what you can get

you'll be less nervous in future, and tbh, nothing attracts the opposite sex quite like being taken >.>

ps this advice works a lot better when you are in a semi temporary situation, ie army, college, and you'll be moving on soon enough that your reputation won't follow you
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:15:07
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol
It's easy to find one. But one that is a good fit is much harder.
I think my expectations are too high, or I'm too focused on things I want in a girl. Also meeting people seems to be the hard part for me. I don't think I'd find the type of girl I'm looking for in a bar.

No fatties though.

i agree on the no fatties

i mean there is of course a threshold they need to cross before they reach fatty status

like there is "big girl" and then there is "Oh damn wtf is that"

and i've actually had the "Oh damn wtfs" look at me :( and sit next to me and try talking to me
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By Ifrit.Bloodbathboy 2011-03-24 08:15:28
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Bahamut.Dasva said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
It's easy to find one. But one that is a good fit is much harder.
im not setting my goals too high in what kind of girl im looking for atm
Hehe good fit

And yeah just remember if your standards are too high lower your standards. Would be nice to find a girl that you don't have to though and ya know that actually wants to be with you
I know what you man. I always wonder what they want when they approach me.... As for standards. Let them spit there game. If your not interested. Tell them.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:15:57
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol

want some probably morally questionable advice?

if you've never been in a relationship

go for anything

get the ***, awkwardness, arguments etc. out of the way with whoever you can

and end it when you've gotten what you can get

you'll be less nervous in future, and tbh, nothing attracts the opposite sex quite like being taken >.>

so go for anything and get the relationship over with quick O_o?
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 08:16:42
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|
how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.
well that sucks i guess? good luck finding one O_O im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol
It's easy to find one. But one that is a good fit is much harder.
I think my expectations are too high, or I'm too focused on things I want in a girl. Also meeting people seems to be the hard part for me. I don't think I'd find the type of girl I'm looking for in a bar.

No fatties though.
Yeah I don't mind it but they all seem to have issues that I wouldn't have thought were related to that. So no more fatties I hope
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By Wombat 2011-03-24 08:17:36
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
so go for anything and get the relationship over with quick O_o?
I think he's saying to just go for it, so you can get some experience. Which makes you more attractive and better suited for being able to handle a "good" relationship in the future.

Decent advice, IMO.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 08:18:00
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Wombat said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
so go for anything and get the relationship over with quick O_o?
I think he's saying to just go for it, so you can get some experience. Which makes you more attractive and better suited for being able to handle a "good" relationship in the future.

Decent advice, IMO.

im bad at comprehending things ; ;
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-03-24 08:18:18
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Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
I wasn't romantically frustrated until I started posting in this thread :|

how did that happen lol
lol it made me want to start looking for a girlfriend again.

well that sucks i guess?

good luck finding one O_O

im currently trying to talk to a girl myself lol

want some probably morally questionable advice?

if you've never been in a relationship

go for anything

get the ***, awkwardness, arguments etc. out of the way with whoever you can

and end it when you've gotten what you can get

you'll be less nervous in future, and tbh, nothing attracts the opposite sex quite like being taken >.>

so go for anything and get the relationship over with quick O_o?


not necessarily even end it quick

all aspects of relationships take practice

and it would be a shame to get superlucky and land the chick of your dreams

and then lose it all because you had no idea where to go from there

also it's a pretty good opportunity to get it into your head that the other side is human too

they aren't seraphim by any means, just products of a culture that wants them to be
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