Romantically Frustrated?

Well, given your good humor, she's likely to be young. Time may yet be against you .....

Its all about confidence. I am not an ugly guy, I'm talented musically, athletically, and am pretty smart, but for the longest time I had a really hard time talking to women. Despite all of my strong points, I just didn't have the balls to go up and start conversations with strangers about random ***. Its a hard thing to do and to get over because of fears of rejection, embarrassment, and going outside your comfort zone.
My advice to all you guys out there having issues talking to women, is get over yourselves. Life is too short to worry about the what if's. Here's a what if for you. What if you don't ever grow a set to talk to your potential soul mate, she never meets you, falls in love with some *** hole, and you never find anyone. It sucks, and is a shitty scenario, but when it comes down to it, if you are afraid of being alone, and failing in love, that is the most likely thing to happen to you.

I hate that, how it's so hard to go up and just talk to someone.. I feel like were so afraid of rejection that we just don't even open ourselves up to the possibility.

I'm the same way, Im way too frightened to just walk up to a guy and strike a conversation. Or really anybody.. rejection is a scary thing.

It's why I've always found relationships online. You dont have to be afraid of the same things because you're not INSTANTLY being judged for something other than what you're saying, which is refreshing for someone like me that isn't really beautiful or talented.

Unless you count volunteering, reading, overachieving, choir singing as talent. XD

So I agree, it all has to do with confidence. :) At least to start out.

Sorry, Lolserj, after reading through all of this today, I realized I shouldn't be posting while intoxicated.

No, that's the best way to go through threads on here. :) Type and move on..

Good policy! LOL! The music threads were full of drunkards last night! That was phenomenal while drunk!

EDIT: Although, I'm still surprised that XdudemanX could make heads or tails of my ramblings.

i never said anything about it not being a catholic school

i just wanted to point out that it wasn't one

but either way going to school with no girls isn't fun :/

sausage feast.

Alky!

/clears throat

Oh snap!

I heard from Bart you guys had a good time. :3 Thanks for keeping him busy while I went so sleep early.

No problem. It was fun! You need to join next time!

Trying too hard? Sometimes it comes off as fake.

women don't like nice people?

wat the ***

Definitely should!! :D Perhaps this weekend!

Sounds good to me!

Sometimes it's strangers. Other times it has been friends and aquaintances. One(a friend) even followed me around for a while going on a diatribe about how it was completely unnecessary for me to ever hold doors for anybody.

Why would you come off as a dimwit or desperate; if you didn't want to prance around being suggestive, being coy? It has its place, granted, but I don't find it effective for what I seek. Most of the people I know don't care for it either. Should we just make our personal experiences ultimates? I don't think that's what anyone has been aiming at, but you sound very condescending when you imply that my gifts were not heartfelt, meaningful.

Both gifts were unique, and each had things about them that no one else would of known about those ladies. Pink roses in a vase of water, for a girl whose favorite color was pink but had never received flowers before. A white wolf fur for a woman wanting something natural that would not perish. I'm not saying you need to lay everything on the line, or get anything outlandish/expensive. I just don't think there's much of a reason for you to feint with your feelings.

But like I said, I'll grant that I don't look for flings or short term things. That's a game I don't know how to invest in. And I guess I wasn't clear/in depth before Josiah, but I look for long term potential, a woman to share myself with completely. A woman to show the folks, or to enrage them depending lol. I look for an attractive woman. Attractive at least to myself, as that category is subjective. Maturity is another thing, as well as intelligence with a good sense of humor. Similar interests, common ground, the stuff that most people look for, but it must fit me. You see, I'm not really all that frustrated, so sorry if I misconveyed that. I was aiming to perhaps make some of the frustrated men and women question why they find themselves frustrated.

I would say that I am sexually frustrated. Not having had much of that, it is insanely difficult to ignore what my body craves. Especially when my friends are far better at gaining multiple partners within a short period of time, and when they boast about their exploits to me or for one reason or another ask me questions pertaining to something I have little experience in.


Have I cleared up what you wonder about me Josiah, or did I obfuscate it further?

i have been told by someone to be an *** to girls >.>

Spend lots of money on them!

i can't be a fulltime *** :/

only a parttime one

my friend told me to try a free dating site cuz its working for her, is this a bad idea or a bad idea? lol

i always thought those were for old people so i never tried :/

(by old i mean mid 20s-30s)

If I'm being too nice to girls/women for some reason they seem to think it's because I'm interested in them, even though I already have a g/f.

I must look really desperate or something /shrug

Plenty of Fish? lol my best friend found his *** of a girlfriend there.

but they will live close to me! HA im 22 ;; im not getting any younger! lol