Girls that make their ambitions obvious are usually the ones you want to avoid for obvious reasons.
Then again those that hide them well will get you get you too.
Now there's a paradox!
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Ragnarok.Hevans said: i'm a firm believer in karma. it's something i wanna do... but i wont. the thing is chick 1 is always going back and forth. i'm gonna have to just ignore both of them. i'll end up sad face if i start hanging out with girl 1 and i'll have too much guilt if i go with girl 2. Two words: *** buddy. You don't have to get into a serious relationship with girl 1. That'd probably be a bad idea in general. IMO if they don't like you for who you are, they're not worth it--and she clearly doesn't. But sex is always good. Ragnarok.Hevans said: Leviathan.Niniann said: I'm not entirely sure the situation, but this is how I feel about it. Let's say you do want one of them. Basically, girls find guys more attractive when they have girls hanging off of them. The friend of yours who wasn't interested in you before suddenly thinks you're more desirable because your friend's gf is looking at you in that way. Of course she's jealous because she thinks, "HE WAS MINE FIRST" which is why this is happening. Stealing someone's girlfriend is a last resort. Typically it's not something you want to do period, and especially not something you want to do to a friend, even if he's not your bestest buddy in the world. So I'm going to say stick with girl 1, remind girl 2 she has a boyfriend. Or if you're sick and twisted play both of them for funsies. It's easier to get laid if you get laid first! Okies, sleep time for me. i'm a firm believer in karma. it's something i wanna do... but i wont. the thing is chick 1 is always going back and forth. i'm gonna have to just ignore both of them. i'll end up sad face if i start hanging out with girl 1 and i'll have too much guilt if i go with girl 2. Girl1 would just be a game, honestly. She'll keep you till she gets bored then go back to "omg, I just wanted to be friends" thing. Girl2, respect the mancode! Artemicion said: Girls that make their ambitions obvious are usually the ones you want to avoid for obvious reasons. Then again those that hide them well will get you get you too. Now there's a paradox! Are you saying you should avoid me at all costs? ; -; Leviathan.Niniann said: Ragnarok.Hevans said: i'm a firm believer in karma. it's something i wanna do... but i wont. the thing is chick 1 is always going back and forth. i'm gonna have to just ignore both of them. i'll end up sad face if i start hanging out with girl 1 and i'll have too much guilt if i go with girl 2. Two words: *** buddy. You don't have to get into a serious relationship with girl 1. That'd probably be a bad idea in general. IMO if they don't like you for who you are, they're not worth it--and she clearly doesn't. But sex is always good. I would have to agree. To many, sex is the ice breaker that divides lines between relationships and friendships. I say, why does it have to be? As long as it's mutual it can be quite beneficial and easy going. Leviathan.Niniann said: Artemicion said: Girls that make their ambitions obvious are usually the ones you want to avoid for obvious reasons. Then again those that hide them well will get you get you too. Now there's a paradox! Are you saying you should avoid me at all costs? ; -; Naw, I'm just making a silly girl paradox xD Kinda like how guys are either ***, or nice and therefore boring. You just can't win! Artemicion said: Leviathan.Niniann said: Artemicion said: Girls that make their ambitions obvious are usually the ones you want to avoid for obvious reasons. Then again those that hide them well will get you get you too. Now there's a paradox! Are you saying you should avoid me at all costs? ; -; Naw, I'm just making a silly girl paradox xD Kinda like how guys are either ***, or nice and therefore boring. You just can't win! oooooooooooo Gotcha! Artemicion said: I would have to agree. To many, sex is the ice breaker that divides lines between relationships and friendships. I say, why does it have to be? As long as it's mutual it can be quite beneficial and easy going. I think it was either you or blazza that posted a pretty good graph, let's see if I can find it.... think it was blazza.. it was a thing where i liked her, but she had a bf. then i had a gf and they broke up. then her and her bf got back together and became single. it's just never been a good time. tbh i think we've become resentful towards each other. she knows what i want. when there was a chance she didn't do it cause it was too soon since her break up. she still wanted to sabotage any thing i had going with other girls though. i basically cut her out for like 5 months. she called me all the time and eventually guilt tripped me into hanging out again.
we get along great and are good friends. there's just sexual tension and it's just never been taken care of. i've tried to be understanding and i've tried to be assertive. she's just insane. Odin.Blazza said: I'm just gonna put this here: 
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In short, friendship is the most secure and and beneficial social status any two people could have between each other. It's once you make more of it that things become delicate and complicated with expectations, obligations, etc.
And sex is probably one of the most physically satisfying conditions one can achieve, and to be frank, there's no reason why you can't make the two work together as long as communication and mutual understanding are on the same level between each other. i dont like making friends first even though thats what i always do lol i lose so many friends :<
Ragnarok.Hevans said: she's just insane. Asura.Chuuuuu said: i dont like making friends first even though thats what i always do lol i lose so many friends :< You have to make friends first, and while doing that judge whether or not they're mentally stable. If they're sane, proceed to dating. If they're not ABANDON SHIP!
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the thing is i know that i'm gonna end up not getting with either of them, and that's fine. i just wanted to rant in the frustrated area. i appreciate the advice and such though.
Leviathan.Niniann said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i dont like making friends first even though thats what i always do lol i lose so many friends :< You have to make friends first, and while doing that judge whether or not they're mentally stable. If they're sane, proceed to dating. If they're not ABANDON SHIP! Leviathan.Niniann said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i dont like making friends first even though thats what i always do lol i lose so many friends :< You have to make friends first, and while doing that judge whether or not they're mentally stable. If they're sane, proceed to dating. If they're not ABANDON SHIP! Asura.Chuuuuu said: Leviathan.Niniann said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i dont like making friends first even though thats what i always do lol i lose so many friends :< You have to make friends first, and while doing that judge whether or not they're mentally stable. If they're sane, proceed to dating. If they're not ABANDON SHIP! he didn't wanna be your friend lol. Asura.Chuuuuu said: Leviathan.Niniann said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i dont like making friends first even though thats what i always do lol i lose so many friends :< You have to make friends first, and while doing that judge whether or not they're mentally stable. If they're sane, proceed to dating. If they're not ABANDON SHIP! It sucks to keep your emotions in check sometimes. Not everyone is fit for it. But what you described would fall under the "It's complicated" on the chart. Reconciled in the end of course. Asura.Chuuuuu said: or u make friends and u think everything is fine then u get a bf and OMGWTF they flip out on you and rage quit the friendship lol :< i had that happen lol i just think he was mentally unstable to begin with but i liked that friendship ;~; Oh... I've had those... meeeh. Sucks, but there's nothing you can do about it. :s Ragnarok.Hevans said: he didn't wanna be your friend lol. That too, he wanted in your pants/wanted you all to himself. OR BOTH AT THE SAME TIME! Okay I should really sleep. @@; im just gunna ditch that idea of okcupid again lol im happy right now and thats all that matters D:
Asura.Chuuuuu said: im just gunna ditch that idea of okcupid again lol im happy right now and thats all that matters D: /high5 Asura.Chuuuuu said: im just gunna ditch that idea of okcupid again lol im happy right now and thats all that matters D: Yar. If it ain't broken, don't fix it. then again i could use a good ego stroking ;0
yeah i was hoping for at least a stroking last night =/
i could use some compliments and stroking
Asura.Chuuuuu said: then again i could use a good ego stroking ;0 Well if you're gonna make it a business-like decision of risk assessment and acceptable losses, then... I don't even know lol. im like super tired right nowww i cant even think right
Asura.Chuuuuu said: then again i could use a good ego stroking ;0  Ragnarok.Hevans said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: then again i could use a good ego stroking ;0 Asura.Chuuuuu said: Ragnarok.Hevans said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: then again i could use a good ego stroking ;0 doesn't seem like your ego needs that much stroking. |
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