Op, just hang in there. Plenty if fish in the sea.
Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Certain things help attract women. But I believe everyone has something to offer. Look, talk, and listen. Op can find one. If he is sprung on a particular one, hopefully she will come around.
I think you're confused man. None of this was about me seeking answers but I appreciate the effort
Bahamut.Feisei said:
Yea i'll bite...moreso because im sort of at a loss as what to do. 3 and 1/3 years ago I dated this japanese girl and things were great till she left to go back to japan(something I knew all along...mistake learned). Kept talking to her for a couple weeks after she had left and I was rather emo(my first love) about her not coming back for who knows how long. I tend to get upset when a girl I love breaks up with me and I cant have her anymore cuz I love with my whole heart. ***ended badly, I said alot of dumb things and we stopped talking for the past 3 years(also blocked me on fb) until... About a week before the japan earthquake/tsunami I thought it would be cool to see what she was up to so I sent her a email. A couple emails later ***hit the fan in japan and I learn shes coming back for a month since she cant really do anything since everything is shutdown pretty much(school, work, etc). Well of course a bunch of old emotions in me get stirred up and I just don't even know. The real kicker here is, my 2 best friends are still friends with her and have been keeping in touch with her. So im bound to run into her at some point shes here and i dont even know what ill do.
I want to be honest here, I don't think you understand love completely. She blocked you on facebook for impulses you made you mentioned? What else did you do that threw her off so much? But either way a first love always stays with us in some form, learning a great deal but I wouldn't pursue this personally. Do you think you can move on? Since your friends in touch with her are so close to you I'm betting they're willing to accommodate you hmmm
i dont know why i ever quit ffxi. you guys crack me up
come back! join sharktopus! well for like a week then were goin back to bahamut! you heard it here first!
bahamut is where all the fun is! im comming back once these servers are up to roam the streets as a hometown hero, or zero, either way, i just wanna see welcome to bahamut on my pc again
i dont know why i ever quit ffxi. you guys crack me up
come back! join sharktopus! well for like a week then were goin back to bahamut! you heard it here first!
You would post a cartoon of a young girl. lol
Do I know you?
Sylph.Vestal said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Sylph.Vestal said:
Sylph.Jax said:
i dont know why i ever quit ffxi. you guys crack me up
come back! join sharktopus! well for like a week then were goin back to bahamut! you heard it here first!
bahamut is where all the fun is! im comming back once these servers are up to roam the streets as a hometown hero, or zero, either way, i just wanna see welcome to bahamut on my pc again
Yeah I was gunna move back to ramuh... that plan kinda failed
I have to applaud you, Josiah. You seem genuinely interested and honest with your intentions. You regard this group as friends, and I don't think I've ever seen you write anything mean-spirited towards another. Unfortunately, it seems like your thread has been hijacked by trolls, but that's ffxiah for you. Hell, I know I've partaken in the trolling on more than one occasion. Also, I'm sure most people aren't very willing to share something that personal on a public forum, so unfortunately your generosity will be overlooked. But, for the record, thanks for giving those who need it the opportunity to know that you're willing to help.
I have to applaud you, Josiah. You seem genuinely interested and honest with your intentions. You regard this group as friends, and I don't think I've ever seen you write anything mean-spirited towards another. Unfortunately, it seems like your thread has been hijacked by trolls, but that's ffxiah for you. Hell, I know I've partaken in the trolling on more than one occasion. Also, I'm sure most people aren't very willing to share something that personal on a public forum, so unfortunately your generosity will be overlooked. But, for the record, thanks for giving those who need it the opportunity to know that you're willing to help.
This thread has not been ***upon in any way (nor is it a ***topic to begin with), nobody's been put down for responding on topic, and even the derails have been at least somewhat related... I don't see how this has been hijacked by trolls? If anything it's one of the best threads we've had since the servers went down.
But either way a first love always stays with us in some form
I don't like my first love anymore :x
oh? but you know what I meant right?
Yeah, definitely. I just wondered if that had another meaning to it though.
What I meant was our first love will be even if only subconsciously a reference point forever in what we look for or avoid in a lover and it will shape our opinions of potential partners a great deal. Yeah I can see not liking them or hating them lol
But you're not in contact with yours?
It was an in-game relationship. <_<;
I broke it off with her, then blocked all contact, because I was getting sick of her bitching about me not being a better boyfriend. Basically because I wasn't always there for her, and it felt like she wanted me to be around her 24/7. Not to mention she wanted me to hang out with her friends, and one of them she used to have a relationship with. I think that was a red flag...She would even sometimes give me that "YOU DON'T LOVE ME" BS that stressed me out.
Right now though I heard a rumor she committed suicide. I...honestly don't know what to say about it. Can't say I'm surprised, though.