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By Asura.Abriannah 2011-04-07 14:18:41
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
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I can't even describe how much time I've been alone vs been with someone because of long distance relationships. Oh an the amount of money I've spent for plane tickets. Sometimes you have to decide if it's worth it.
I tried it once it didn't work out... my whole philosophy on it turned out to be that if there's no possibility that you can move near them in the sometime near future then it should stay as friends allowing other things to happen until that time does come... that's just how I look at it though... I mean I'm open to things starting anywhere... but when your "together" for years and never get to see eachother at all it just kinda becomes something that is unsustainable... It works for some though so I don't knock it either...

I actually agree with this.. But I'm hypocritical. I fell too hard to be smart about it. Plus.. Sometimes it's worth the wait as long as there's a plan hopefully.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-07 14:22:46
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Asura.Abriannah said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
I can't even describe how much time I've been alone vs been with someone because of long distance relationships. Oh an the amount of money I've spent for plane tickets. Sometimes you have to decide if it's worth it.
I tried it once it didn't work out... my whole philosophy on it turned out to be that if there's no possibility that you can move near them in the sometime near future then it should stay as friends allowing other things to happen until that time does come... that's just how I look at it though... I mean I'm open to things starting anywhere... but when your "together" for years and never get to see eachother at all it just kinda becomes something that is unsustainable... It works for some though so I don't knock it either...

I actually agree with this.. But I'm hypocritical. I fell too hard to be smart about it. Plus.. Sometimes it's worth the wait as long as there's a plan hopefully.
and by plan an actual plan with named dates specifically i think.
i tend to say i'm going to do something soon and do it later(later could mean 3 weeks, 3 months, or 3 years even depending) because of a lack of setting up specifics lol.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-04-07 14:22:55
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Asura.Abriannah said:
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I can't even describe how much time I've been alone vs been with someone because of long distance relationships. Oh an the amount of money I've spent for plane tickets. Sometimes you have to decide if it's worth it.
I tried it once it didn't work out... my whole philosophy on it turned out to be that if there's no possibility that you can move near them in the sometime near future then it should stay as friends allowing other things to happen until that time does come... that's just how I look at it though... I mean I'm open to things starting anywhere... but when your "together" for years and never get to see eachother at all it just kinda becomes something that is unsustainable... It works for some though so I don't knock it either...
I actually agree with this.. But I'm hypocritical. I fell too hard to be smart about it. Plus.. Sometimes it's worth the wait as long as there's a plan hopefully.
That's the thing though... how long does one wait before that plan starts to be put in motion... I guess it all comes down to the personal choice in the matter... I just can't do it anymore. That's why, for me, those relationships are more friendships unless theres somekind of near future plan that won't fall through and take another 10 years... I always fear when stuff like that happens they have someone else there too and want to keep both going until one fails or something.. but I guess thats a paranoid thought...
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-04-07 14:25:29
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Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-04-07 14:25:54
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
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It's funny, I'm completely distrusting.. But yet I always trust the guys hundreds of miles away
I feel like that too. I get paranoid and distrusting of people who live around me, but I can just talk and talk about anything and everything if they're online or somewhere far away. I think I'm too worried about them judging me to act anything other than really nice and accommodating.
It seems like its easy to talk to people that are far away I think because they're outside your social circle and there's no immediate fear of them blabbing your secrets to people you know.... also some people just seem trustworthy and such and theres a connection... I've been lied ot on both sides so I'm kind of wary with what I tell people at times but when I do tell people things about myself I always ask myself "will I care if they break my trust knowing this?" If i say no then I go for it... Though there are always a few exceptions... like when someone shares with you or something like that...
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-07 14:26:05
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Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-04-07 14:27:16
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... now if I could only crack others up too... lol...
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-07 14:28:48
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... no if I could only crack others up too... lol...
A hammer and pressurized hydrogen could do that easily.
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-04-07 14:30:10
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... no if I could only crack others up too... lol...
yeah, youre the only person who cracks you up.

Ugly for me? Disproportioned, cigarettes, high maintenance-like attitude, too much Italian, smelly vagina, weird looks (in a bad way)
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-04-07 14:33:39
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Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... no if I could only crack others up too... lol...
yeah, youre the only person who cracks you up. Ugly for me? Disproportioned, cigarettes, high maintenance-like attitude, too much Italian, smelly vagina, weird looks (in a bad way)
It means a lot to me that I could win your approval on that man.. I hold your opions in the highest regard!
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-04-07 14:33:42
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Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... no if I could only crack others up too... lol...
yeah, youre the only person who cracks you up.

Ugly for me? Disproportioned, cigarettes, high maintenance-like attitude, too much Italian, smelly vagina, weird looks (in a bad way)
ugly usually deals in appearance.
so smelly vagina's gotta go for that one.
smells bad is a better descriptive point.
weird looks are a bit vague since if you think about it we all look weird, any specific weird looks you dislike?
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2011-04-07 14:37:01
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... no if I could only crack others up too... lol...
yeah, youre the only person who cracks you up. Ugly for me? Disproportioned, cigarettes, high maintenance-like attitude, too much Italian, smelly vagina, weird looks (in a bad way)
It means a lot to me that I could win your approval on that man.. I hold your opions in the highest regard!
asskissing only works on mods dude.

Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Im just too *** psychotic for the average chick. I hate shy girls, I laugh at ghetto girls with gold teeth. I stare at chubby chicks like I wanna rape them right there, and my eyes twitch when I see an ugly broad.
what is ugly for you?
Mirror? oh snap.... lol i crack myself up... no if I could only crack others up too... lol...
yeah, youre the only person who cracks you up.

Ugly for me? Disproportioned, cigarettes, high maintenance-like attitude, too much Italian, smelly vagina, weird looks (in a bad way)
ugly usually deals in appearance.
so smelly vagina's gotta go for that one.
smells bad is a better descriptive point.
weird looks are a bit vague since if you think about it we all look weird, any specific weird looks you dislike?
hmmm, its kind of hard to explain. What might be considered weird to me might be normal for you, or hot for the next guy.

I guess a girl with stick legs, a huge middle, a small head wearing goth clothing would be considered "weird looking". I dont focus on appearance because I prefer the personality over the looks (unless she absolutely looks hideous)
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By Asura.Abriannah 2011-04-07 14:43:40
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
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I can't even describe how much time I've been alone vs been with someone because of long distance relationships. Oh an the amount of money I've spent for plane tickets. Sometimes you have to decide if it's worth it.
I tried it once it didn't work out... my whole philosophy on it turned out to be that if there's no possibility that you can move near them in the sometime near future then it should stay as friends allowing other things to happen until that time does come... that's just how I look at it though... I mean I'm open to things starting anywhere... but when your "together" for years and never get to see eachother at all it just kinda becomes something that is unsustainable... It works for some though so I don't knock it either...
I actually agree with this.. But I'm hypocritical. I fell too hard to be smart about it. Plus.. Sometimes it's worth the wait as long as there's a plan hopefully.
That's the thing though... how long does one wait before that plan starts to be put in motion... I guess it all comes down to the personal choice in the matter... I just can't do it anymore. That's why, for me, those relationships are more friendships unless theres somekind of near future plan that won't fall through and take another 10 years... I always fear when stuff like that happens they have someone else there too and want to keep both going until one fails or something.. but I guess thats a paranoid thought...

My fear is when one person just doesn't really care.. they're all like " it'll happen eventually. " "It'll just be a bit longer." I'm definitely a plan girl. I like dates, times, things set in place. So when I dont get that, I actually get very paranoid. Just about everything gets into my head from that person obviously doesn't care enough to want to see me, cheating, ect ect.

That's just me though, if both the people aren't in it in for the longer haul, and WORKING towards a goal whether that means saving money, setting time for a trip, blah blah..

I dunno. I have no room to speak.. Once I fall for someone I'd probably wait years.. oh wait, I did. But hey, it's happening now! :)
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-04-07 15:25:27
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Asura.Abriannah said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
I can't even describe how much time I've been alone vs been with someone because of long distance relationships. Oh an the amount of money I've spent for plane tickets. Sometimes you have to decide if it's worth it.
I tried it once it didn't work out... my whole philosophy on it turned out to be that if there's no possibility that you can move near them in the sometime near future then it should stay as friends allowing other things to happen until that time does come... that's just how I look at it though... I mean I'm open to things starting anywhere... but when your "together" for years and never get to see eachother at all it just kinda becomes something that is unsustainable... It works for some though so I don't knock it either...
I actually agree with this.. But I'm hypocritical. I fell too hard to be smart about it. Plus.. Sometimes it's worth the wait as long as there's a plan hopefully.
That's the thing though... how long does one wait before that plan starts to be put in motion... I guess it all comes down to the personal choice in the matter... I just can't do it anymore. That's why, for me, those relationships are more friendships unless theres somekind of near future plan that won't fall through and take another 10 years... I always fear when stuff like that happens they have someone else there too and want to keep both going until one fails or something.. but I guess thats a paranoid thought...
My fear is when one person just doesn't really care.. they're all like " it'll happen eventually. " "It'll just be a bit longer." I'm definitely a plan girl. I like dates, times, things set in place. So when I dont get that, I actually get very paranoid. Just about everything gets into my head from that person obviously doesn't care enough to want to see me, cheating, ect ect. That's just me though, if both the people aren't in it in for the longer haul, and WORKING towards a goal whether that means saving money, setting time for a trip, blah blah.. I dunno. I have no room to speak.. Once I fall for someone I'd probably wait years.. oh wait, I did. But hey, it's happening now! :)
Yeah I hear ya... and good luck!
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By Sylph.Tigerwoods 2011-04-07 15:32:56
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-04-07 18:19:04
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To be honest, sex is just a fun activity to do. It's like "hey, I'm bored, wanna have sex?" So I could choose an amazing friendship and be happy. Yes I'd like sex every now and then through some means, but it's more society and instinct telling me to "make babies".

There are plenty of more times when I'd rather have a friend just being around than having her there to get me off.
It almost sounds like you've never been in love with a partner of yours? and sorry if I'm making you uncomfortable

Some people simply don't fall in love. I don't believe everyone is able to fall in love, I think it's personality-dependent.
 
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-07 19:35:37
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giving up on starbucks coffee girl =/ too much drama now. I don't think I can go back there. The coffee is now tainted
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-07 19:39:13
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Did she get married?
ugh its getting overly complicated with dramaness cuz now the girl-with-benefits is getting pissed about the whole thing. Because seriously if things do go down...2 guys taking turns with the same girl...she's not going to get any.....so its pretty much a powderkeg ready to explode =/ so i'm gtfo. After i buy this one last poundcake.
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By Artemicion 2011-04-08 01:07:10
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Leviathan.Niniann said:
I'd seriously consider posting a thread seeing if you can find someone to go with. Just keep in mind it'd probably be just pure companionship, but at least this way you know you both have one thing in common. I'd say post something on cragslist, but I find that site incredibly sketchy. @@;

Sorry, got home a little late, but I think this would be a much more ideal solution than craigslist. After all, we're already in relevant interests as far as Final Fantasy goes. Also they don't necessarily have to be close as I'd be paying for airfare anyways. Not gonna be cheap but I would love to share the experience with someone nice (and female) >.>
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