Romantically Frustrated?

It definitely seems over complicated but who knows maybe shes worth i mean why would 4 other people be fighting over her... just saying...

She must be beautiful! But then again, there's four people fighting over her. Three of them (and possibly the fourth) are going to get rejected, hurt, and maybe even heartbroken. I don't know, seems like a bad situation to me.

The problem is, beautiful women will let compliments/excessive flirting from other males go to their heads. Thus why it's more common to see a "void" of personality in extremely attractive women.
The men hitting on them doesn't help this either.

Odds are she isn't worth your time. Doubt she'd be much of a gem in the personality department for saying yes to a real marriage proposal from some guy she met online and never seen in person and having both a male and female FWB.

What really is gonna happen is the girlfriend is gonna catch her with a male with benefits dude and coffee is gonna be flying at starbucks. chicks can be crazier than a dude when caught cheating

Probably, but you never know is all i'm saying... I tend to stay away from situations with that many people because one of em usually ends up being really crazy and I do not like getting stabbed...

I thought they were all aware of each other already? and sometimes yeah lol you should check 4 or so pages back to reference that lol...

I hate to backread sometimes lol. I figured they all didn't know about each other.

From what I recall her female FWB was the most chill of them all.
She was okay and supporting of her decision to accept that proposal from that total online stranger. Either way, it's just a huge mess not worth getting into. I've heard of love triangles, but not love hexagons D:

Idk for sure lol... but I was talking about backreading for the crazy chick references as we had some a few pages back lol..

it seems like they do know from this post but then again I've been wrong before...

well Atm guy-with-benefits has emotional attachments to starbucksgirl . so MG and guy-with-benefits were aruging of "who's going to keep the girl" and they keep argueing back and forth.
like they say they both love her but whole entire arguement is basically like this

Guy-with-benefits - > I love you starbucks coffee girl
Mg - > I love you starbucks coffee girl

Guy-with-benefits argues with MG

Guy-with-benefits -> You know MG, you're better for her, you take her.

MG -> no no guy-with-benefits you take her, you're better

and omg that argument continued for like an hour straight. and I tell starbucks coffee girl. Srsly.. WTF you're not some object thats suppose to be passed back 'n forth. Both men should present a strong compelling argument as to why they are better for you. not this elementary bullcrap. So thats where its at atm.

Are you all in a room together?

how did you get to know so much about this girl from getting your coffee >.>

...and you should just be like baby let them argue and let me take you out... ;)

yeah thats the way it sounds. =/ but she doesn't want to choose lol. *sigh*
and no i'm not in a room lol I just text her a lot and she gives me updates and she's like arggghhh and i'm like =P I'm here if you don't want either of those guys

You go man! and one more question lol how are fwbg and mg talking to eachother?

I think they're just texting each other

I still say she aint worth the trouble, but at least you have some entertainment

yes, its very entertaining

Is it just me or is it weird that she put those guys in contact with each other.... I'm start to think that this is all some elaborate ploy to get you volkom...

She could just be a drama queen and is enjoying all of the attention/insanity.

qft

Single, not looking

Lucky.

Going to have to agree with Nini on this one.

-Starbucks Coffee Girl update-
So Iono WTF happened, but now they're thinking about having something like a Ménage à trois. And when I heard that was like /facepalm
and I repeated what i basically said to her
" I still think they should both give you real compelling arguments as to why they want to be with you, and how they can make your life better. and what they can do for the relationship between you and him. because honestly...eventually you'll have to choose someday and when that time comes, they're going to suffer far worst than they can possibly go through now."

I hate to be judgmental and jump to conclusions, but everything about that starbucks girl is just screaming out "attention ***" and "***".
First accepting a marriage proposal from some online dude in Alabama, now a Ménage à trois?




There's a reason that term is French. It stretches far beyond our social and cultural norms, and delving into that as a naive teenager is just suicide.

Corrrection, The two men decided on that, and starbucks coffee girl is scared of the idea.

Thanks for the clarification.
Meanwhile, it sounds like the two guys are stretching their imagination and sexual boundaries.
No wonder girls have a knee-jerk reaction to reject a guy before accepting them as a date/partner.

But really, it sounds like she needs to bail out of that situation and find someone with a level head.