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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 16:43:34
I wish Niniann were around more.
Miss that foxy lady. (Ba dun-tsh!)
I miss Nini too! She is FUN!
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By Bismarck.Bloodbathboy 2013-01-21 16:44:08
I mean she cute and and has a smoking body. But she has been in the friends zone for a few years. Not to metion if she got the dizzle she would not let me be. I am thinking about moving to SoCal so I don't want to be a douche.
Odin.Liela
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By Odin.Liela 2013-01-21 16:50:38
I love Shakespearean-era insults. Being a jerk, but doing it classy!
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 16:52:42
/snickers
"Thou elvish-mark'd, abortive, rooting hog."
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By Bismarck.Bloodbathboy 2013-01-21 17:02:00
Slamming the old fashion way, nice!!
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By Artemicion 2013-01-21 17:02:59
Sometimes I think how nice it'd be to have a family.
But for my current mindset and lifestyle, I'll let kitties fill that void.
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By Bismarck.Moonlightespada 2013-01-21 17:03:16
Hmmmmm....
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By Odin.Headstrong 2013-01-21 17:06:42
Sometimes I think how nice it'd be to have a family.
But for my current mindset and lifestyle, I'll let kitties fill that void. Sounds nice, but what is it actually like.. idk i think i'd miss my 'alone time' too much to ever consider having children
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By Artemicion 2013-01-21 17:08:03
Sometimes I think how nice it'd be to have a family.
But for my current mindset and lifestyle, I'll let kitties fill that void. Sounds nice, but what is it actually like.. idk i think i'd miss my 'alone time' too much to ever consider having children
Ditto. I find a frequent need to keep to myself, whether to my own devices or mental state. Spouses and children, as wonderful and fulfilling as they can be, will likely put heavy restraint on that liberty.
By volkom 2013-01-21 17:17:14
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Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-01-21 17:20:10
Sometimes I think how nice it'd be to have a family.
But for my current mindset and lifestyle, I'll let kitties fill that void. Sounds nice, but what is it actually like.. idk i think i'd miss my 'alone time' too much to ever consider having children
Ditto. I find a frequent need to keep to myself, whether to my own devices or mental state. Spouses and children, as wonderful and fulfilling as they can be, will likely put heavy restraint on that liberty. The point of a mature relationship is to feel not restricted and at ease doing anyting even with your partner around. More simply: the presence of another person is never a weight. But it's complicated and takes time and trust. Some couples never reach that stage at all.
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By Bismarck.Moonlightespada 2013-01-21 17:20:23
eh my cat is one of the sweetest cats. if i can ever catch it again she has this little stuffed cat she uses as a teddy bear that she snuggles with on he couch.
Bismarck.Misao
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By Bismarck.Misao 2013-01-21 17:22:01
Sometimes I think how nice it'd be to have a family.
But for my current mindset and lifestyle, I'll let kitties fill that void. Sounds nice, but what is it actually like.. idk i think i'd miss my 'alone time' too much to ever consider having children
Ditto. I find a frequent need to keep to myself, whether to my own devices or mental state. Spouses and children, as wonderful and fulfilling as they can be, will likely put heavy restraint on that liberty.
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By Bismarck.Moonlightespada 2013-01-21 17:25:26
as much as i love morrigan, <still have my copy of the first darkstalkers for PS1 in thw old cardboard/plastic case lol> the lack of her Scottish accent in that video and the fact they made her a compleate bimbo <shes a goddamned queen for *** sakes> kinda killed the video for me. ~,~
/buzzkillington off
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By Artemicion 2013-01-21 17:27:02
Sometimes I think how nice it'd be to have a family.
But for my current mindset and lifestyle, I'll let kitties fill that void. Sounds nice, but what is it actually like.. idk i think i'd miss my 'alone time' too much to ever consider having children
Ditto. I find a frequent need to keep to myself, whether to my own devices or mental state. Spouses and children, as wonderful and fulfilling as they can be, will likely put heavy restraint on that liberty. The point of a mature relationship is to feel not restricted and at ease doing anyting even with your partner around. More simply: the presence of another person is never a weight. But it's complicated and takes time and trust. Some couples never reach that stage at all.
I understand, and completely agree. However, being as antisocial as I am in general, I find such an objective rather difficult. Especially since we all subconsciously alter our perception and behavior accordingly to being around or with others as opposed to being on your own. So while it's possible to be comfortable and at ease being yourself around a significant other or otherwise, there will always be that "weight", in a passive sense.
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By Bismarck.Moonlightespada 2013-01-21 17:29:26
leeooonpoooo~~~
Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-01-21 17:30:20
The partner may bypass antisocial behaviour. Happens all the time, just need the right one.
"I'd be fine if there was no one in the world but me and you." Because 'you' are a presence I don't mind.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2013-01-21 17:30:48
Bismarck.Moonlightespada said: »leeooonpoooo~~~
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By Artemicion 2013-01-21 17:31:37
The partner may bypass antisocial behaviour. Happens all the time, just need the right one.
"I'd be fine if there was no one in the world but me and you." Because 'you' are a presence I don't mind.
Mhmmm. I suppose there's always someone there that can crack and peel away our figurative shells that we cloister ourselves in.
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 17:33:00
I will never fully understand this little muddle we call FFXIAH.
EDIT: And I've come to the conclusion that it's probably for the better.
Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-01-21 17:33:25
Obviously it also comes down to affinity. If you are someone who wants to be mainly independent you probably won't build a relationship with a clingy monkey. You'd understand each other's needs and respect the "alone moments". As long as you don't take too many of those moments it's fine.
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Bismarck.Misao
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By Bismarck.Misao 2013-01-21 17:33:41
The partner may bypass antisocial behaviour. Happens all the time, just need the right one.
"I'd be fine if there was no one in the world but me and you." Because 'you' are a presence I don't mind.
*calls friend*
"dude wtf, lets go out to lunch"
>"sry, bussy. Le GF"
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"dude, movie next week? Hobbit just came out"
>"what rly?! ... bussy ><"
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"dude, bussy?"
>"yah"
....
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By Artemicion 2013-01-21 17:35:29
Obviously it also comes down to affinity. If you are someone who wants to be mainly independent you probably won't build a relationship with a clingy monkey. You'd understand each other's needs and respect the "alone moments". As long as you don't take too many of those moments it's fine.
Yeah. Though I suppose it would come down to distinguishing one's independence from distancing, which can have an adverse effect and infringe on the foundations of the relationship. But I'm going to stop talking about that, because frankly, I'm not really qualified to have any valid input on the matter when it comes to friendships, relationships, or any other kinds of ships.
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By Odin.Headstrong 2013-01-21 17:35:39
Obviously it also comes down to affinity. If you are someone who wants to be mainly independent you probably won't build a relationship with a clingy monkey. You'd understand each other's needs and respect the "alone moments". As long as you don't take too many of those moments it's fine. I was talking about children tho <.< have fun trying to explain that to them
Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-01-21 17:36:27
I was talking about children tho <.< have fun trying to explain that to them Oh I was just talking about a partner of course.
As for kids...
*** kids.
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 17:37:32
By Artemicion 2013-01-21 17:38:00
Hahahahahaha. You two are my heroes.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2013-01-21 17:39:05
By volkom 2013-01-21 17:39:55
Bismarck.Moonlightespada said: »as much as i love morrigan, <still have my copy of the first darkstalkers for PS1 in thw old cardboard/plastic case lol> the lack of her Scottish accent in that video and the fact they made her a compleate bimbo <shes a goddamned queen for *** sakes> kinda killed the video for me. ~,~
/buzzkillington off
i liked the video ,_,
Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 17:40:27
I need no comforting. I love kids.
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This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
Inb4thisthreadgetsreallywtf
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