Well I hope it all works out for ya Z ^^
We'll be fine. I've just been feeling kind of claustrophobic with him around all the time after living by myself for a year and a half to two years for the first time in my life. I really started enjoying my me time within that period. I'm sure it's also because the courtship itself was short. December to May. Then, "Stop! Baby time!"
<.<; He have a job at least?
Similar situation happened to my little sister... 4 years later, they are now married and he is still a douche.
Oh yeah! I don't deal with jobless guys. One BF lost his for a period, and became complacent. I dealt with it since he was my college sweetheart, and we were going to get married, and sunshine, and rainbows, and blah blah blah. That ended up in a mess. I booted him out of my house when I finally found out from the grapevine of mutual friends that he was cheating on me frequently.
I'm not tying my name and my credit to someone who doesn't have their ***together.
I think it's smart of you not to rush into a marriage with the guy, Zah. It seems to me that more often than not, the children of parents who are only together for the sake of the kids know that on some level, and it doesn't do those kids any favors.
I'd rather grow up in a happy single-parent home than in a bitter two-parent home.
Exactly what happened to my brother, so I'm treading lightly. I know I've bitched about my cuntbagalo of an ex-sister-in-law on here a couple of times.
EDIT: Same case with a couple of friends.