Phoenix.Dabackpack said:
»I feel so lonely here at college ; ;
I'm totally swamped with homework (I guess I'm working myself too hard) and there's a social event tonight (open to everyone), and nobody cares that I can't come. This guy came into the room, with a group of people on my floor, asked my roommate if he wanted to go with me right there, and they all left.
My girlfriend is halfway across the country at another college, and there's the constant fear that she'll leave me for someone over there.
There are people I can -talk- to, but I don't think I would consider them "friends".
Not in a good place right now >_< Sorry, just needed to get that off my chest. Carry on with previous discussion.
Life moves in cycles, don't get too attached to anything.
It's part of growing up.
Friends are going to come and go in and out of your life from here on out.
Just enjoy yourself and meet new people, hang out around some people you don't think are like you, you learn a lot about others and yourself that way.
Don't be ashamed of yourself or ashamed to be seen with others.
In the pursuit of knowledge and happiness there is no wrong in innocence.
Studying alone is great but I've found that if I study with different people who see things different from the way I do, I actually learned a lot more.
Balancing everything is the key.
If it makes you feel any better my first year of college was the same way, only I didn't have any friends and I mostly kept to myself, it made me miserable, and I lost an entire year of probably something that could have been far more beneficial to everyone if I had just gotten out and met people and learned new things (outside of schoolwork).