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Random Thoughts.....What Are You Thinking?
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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Bismarck.Josiahfk said: » Quiznor said: » Confidence completely shattered and never recovered a while back. But have to change it somehow. And fast-ish! Need stuff to work on that work kinda like a gradual progression thing rather than just jump right in like; step 1: play a game with someone but using voice mostly or voice and video mostly to talk or take a friend to a movie is pretty low stress compared to like coffee or dinner I'd imagine Oh i dont really have problems with my friends (except 1 because he became a completely different person). Its just general shyness even to the point of ignoring people and not saying hi or talking back to people i psych my mind when i know ill be around strangers, so then i can be able to say hello. hate going to a party...with strangers looking at you and I tend to think "look at all these ***.." i know...im not very nice in my mind at first
i get realllly quiet around ppl. of course...many who know me just believe im plotting something evil. Which is not always the case >.> I just don't know what to say, especially to females...
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you can either get on medication to make you so *** up you don't care (xanax), try therapy, or deal with it.
i have to deal with it every day, and most people don't think it's an issue i'd have. i do though. i remember being in high school, walking in, seeing all the people, feeling weird, and then just leaving and going back home. i couldn't deal with people. even though i still have problems even with friends, i overcome it. i have to in order to actually live my life. Josiahkf said: » One of my most hated things. You play a youtube playlist and the goddamn load in add is twice as long as the video you're about to see...  First thing I noticed in was Dark Souls in this pic >.> Josiahkf said: » One of my most hated things. You play a youtube playlist and the goddamn load in add is twice as long as the video you're about to see... my biggest pet peeve with ads on youtube is that i shouldn't get an ad if i watch a movie preview. i'm not gonna watch an ad, to watch an ad. Bismarck.Alyora said: » i get realllly quiet around ppl. of course...many who know me just believe im plotting something evil. Which is not always the case >.>
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You can either just build it up the moment before socializing, like chanting in your mind to just go out there and say hi.
My dad...he didnt know how to talk to a woman...he came to me saying he was nervous, dint know what to say... All i told him was to just say hello and ask how she is doing and her day... After that, my dad had a different woman every week til he found one to date
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Bismarck.Alyora said: » I shall be the judge of this once you visit! Bismarck.Josiahfk said: » Quiznor said: » Bismarck.Josiahfk said: » Quiznor said: » Confidence completely shattered and never recovered a while back. But have to change it somehow. And fast-ish! Need stuff to work on that work kinda like a gradual progression thing rather than just jump right in like; step 1: play a game with someone but using voice mostly or voice and video mostly to talk or take a friend to a movie is pretty low stress compared to like coffee or dinner I'd imagine Oh i dont really have problems with my friends (except 1 because he became a completely different person). Its just general shyness even to the point of ignoring people and not saying hi or talking back to people Bismarck.Alyora said: » I just don't know what to say, especially to females... Idk if that is right for me,i had a quick read over it D:
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Bismarck.Alyora said: » You can either just build it up the moment before socializing, like chanting in your mind to just go out there and say hi. My dad...he didnt know how to talk to a woman...he came to me saying he was nervous, dint know what to say... All i told him was to just say hello and ask how she is doing and her day... After that, my dad had a different woman every week til he found one to date Carbuncle.Skulloneix said: » Bismarck.Alyora said: » You can either just build it up the moment before socializing, like chanting in your mind to just go out there and say hi. My dad...he didnt know how to talk to a woman...he came to me saying he was nervous, dint know what to say... All i told him was to just say hello and ask how she is doing and her day... After that, my dad had a different woman every week til he found one to date pssh i made him a ***, he did catch some psycho ***...
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really it just boils down to admitting you have a problem, and to stop making excuses. you can't do something if you don't actually do it.
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Bismarck.Alyora said: » pssh i made him a ***, he did catch some psycho ***... Damnit aly, I am going home now! D: Have fun at party ^^ I wish i was going to a party lol
drive safe. ppl are dumbasses today in light rain. a 13 mile jam is over by the eastern shore... Idk for sure, as my problems are only with large groups of people, but as Aly already mentioned booze can help a great deal.
if that's not an option, try to be mindful of the anxiety, & when you feel it, recoginze it, & try to let it wash over you & away. it helps to try to remember it's only a temporary state of being, & that you can escape it. if you're just all up in your head about people's reaction's to your words, that's just something you have to, as the christians say, "learn to accept the things you can not control" idk if any of that helps, but wtf, it's worth a shot.
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Bismarck.Alyora said: » Carbuncle.Skulloneix said: » Bismarck.Alyora said: » You can either just build it up the moment before socializing, like chanting in your mind to just go out there and say hi. My dad...he didnt know how to talk to a woman...he came to me saying he was nervous, dint know what to say... All i told him was to just say hello and ask how she is doing and her day... After that, my dad had a different woman every week til he found one to date pssh i made him a ***, he did catch some psycho ***...  and its not like you have to get drunk, just enough to be like "f it" and go in to talk
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Bismarck.Alyora said: » I wish i was going to a party lol drive safe. ppl are dumbasses today in light rain. a 13 mile jam is over by the eastern shore... Thanks for heads up! Bismarck.Alyora said: » and its not like you have to get drunk, just enough to be like "f it" and go in to talk yeah I guess we shoud've specified :) Bismarck.Alyora said: » Well if I ever did visit...you would have no problems in socializing with me. >_> <_<
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usually takes me about 2 shots and its on like donkey kong.
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first run of toto rak.. came out with hands head and the H2H :3
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