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Teenager Whoopin for Acting Hard On Facebook (Vid)
Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:13:17
Not me. Honestly I thought you have been rating me down for awhile, lol.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:13:29
Leviathan.Chaosx said: I got to visit Germany the year after the Berlin wall came down, and not only remember it, but have a piece of the wall.
Do you remember when there was an East and West Germany?
that's cool
piece of history there lol
edit: also, I am curious about the bolded for this question directed at Darki.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:15:22
Leviathan.Chaosx said: Not me. Honestly I thought you have been rating me down for awhile, lol.
nah I know it's not you =p though I don't have enough time lately to stalk people and - them.
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Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:15:41
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Leviathan.Chaosx said: I got to visit Germany the year after the Berlin wall came down, and not only remember it, but have a piece of the wall.
Do you remember when there was an East and West Germany?
that's cool
piece of history there lol lol it really is.
East Germany was so depressing as I remember.
EDIT: You could definitely feel when you went under the iron curtain.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:16:58
Phoenix.Darki said: Leviathan.Chaosx said: Not me. Honestly I thought you have been rating me down for awhile, lol.
nah I know it's not you =p though I don't have enough time lately to stalk people and - them. yeah, you shouldn't make stalking a chore by adding in so many extra clicks.
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By Bismarck.Rinako 2011-01-07 22:19:02
When people say "discipline" people instantly think spankings. Most adults who don't believe in spanking fail on the discipline aspect of the matter which is why so many children in today's world are disrespectful and ignorant. I was disciplined as a child in various ways. I've even been hit, but did that low my IQ? Yeah, I wouldn't be on the Dean's List at my University if I was stupid I guess. It takes a lot of smarts to know how to raise a child, and many people don't know how to do it because they fail to know how to discipline a child. You don't have to beat your kid to get your point across but to some people that's what discipline is so they avoid trying any other form.
I've met some very stupid kids who have never been beat in their life, what's their excuse? Ohwait-- poor parenting is probably the best answer there. Some people will think a little smack isn't gonna hurt them while others will argue it's immoral. Some people will blame the lack of manners on lack of beatings and others will argue the "bad kids" need a better form of discipline. However, regardless of how you look at it-- any form of discipline is a sense of "abuse" if you want to throw out "hitting your kid is abuse!" thing. Mental abuse is just as fatal as physical abuse.
In any case, parents just need to know how to discipline their children. Displaying it all over the internet on what you do to your kids is probably not the best idea but hey not my problem. lol
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:20:03
Phoenix.Darki said: Leviathan.Chaosx said: Well see, you really don't have this so called "one up" me on this field.
Feel smug all you want though.
Prove me wrong. I really can't do this online to be honest.
I could say this and you could say that, but at the end of the day, the only thing left would be for me to scan and show my certifications, and really, certs mean nothing.
So I'll pass on this, nice try though.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:21:03
Leviathan.Chaosx said: Phoenix.Darki said: Leviathan.Chaosx said: Well see, you really don't have this so called "one up" me on this field.
Feel smug all you want though.
Prove me wrong. I really can't do this online to be honest.
I could say this and you could say that, but at the end of the day, the only thing left would be for me to scan and show my certifications, and really, certs mean nothing.
So I'll pass on this, nice try though.
yes, nice try yourself.
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Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:22:43
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
edit: also, I am curious about the bolded for this question directed at Darki.
Mainly this:
Quote: you dont even have that life experience either...
so wtf are you talking about again..? idiot
youre not even a parent wtf lol
if anything i got some experience on you hon.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:23:26
Brilliant life experience yourself when I wasn't even talking about germany .... yeaaaaah...
edit-anyways enough for tonight, sleep for tomorrows work. good night.
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Ramuh.Vinvv
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:24:17
Phoenix.Darki said: Brilliant life experience yourself when I wasn't even talking about germany .... yeaaaaah... I think that means you missed the point, dear.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:24:56
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: Brilliant life experience yourself when I wasn't even talking about germany .... yeaaaaah... I think that means you missed the point, dear. didn't*
Look at my posts better...
again- good night.
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Ramuh.Vinvv
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:25:56
Phoenix.Darki said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: Brilliant life experience yourself when I wasn't even talking about germany .... yeaaaaah... I think that means you missed the point, dear. no u
again- good night. fixed,oh good ole no u.
can you people do better than that?
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Leviathan.Chaosx
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:33:13
Let's see when Darki was born I was age 13 ish.
By age 14, let's see I had to watch my dad die in front of me.
I took multiple courses in autism.
I had already seen much of Europe, including East Germany.
I visited Hong Kong back when England still had rule.
Fought the courts to allow me to become a co-guardian of my brother.
Had to testify and sign documents in front of the FBI/CIA that I would not / have not revealed secrets about the patriot missile system.
That's all I can think of atm.
Yet when I mouthed off to my mom, she would smack me, and I am thankful for her everyday for that.
Age 13 was not fun for me at all to say the least.
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:33:52
There's still more, but can't think of atm.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:35:16
maybe when darki gets older she will understand this......maybe.
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By Fenrir.Momohko 2011-01-07 22:35:17
Bismarck.Rinako said: When people say "discipline" people instantly think spankings. Most adults who don't believe in spanking fail on the discipline aspect of the matter which is why so many children in today's world are disrespectful and ignorant. I was disciplined as a child in various ways. I've even been hit, but did that low my IQ? Yeah, I wouldn't be on the Dean's List at my University if I was stupid I guess. It takes a lot of smarts to know how to raise a child, and many people don't know how to do it because they fail to know how to discipline a child. You don't have to beat your kid to get your point across but to some people that's what discipline is so they avoid trying any other form.
I've met some very stupid kids who have never been beat in their life, what's their excuse? Ohwait-- poor parenting is probably the best answer there. Some people will think a little smack isn't gonna hurt them while others will argue it's immoral. Some people will blame the lack of manners on lack of beatings and others will argue the "bad kids" need a better form of discipline. However, regardless of how you look at it-- any form of discipline is a sense of "abuse" if you want to throw out "hitting your kid is abuse!" thing. Mental abuse is just as fatal as physical abuse.
In any case, parents just need to know how to discipline their children. Displaying it all over the internet on what you do to your kids is probably not the best idea but hey not my problem. lol
^ this ... also I think a big part of parents "discipline" is the follow through alot of parents LACK that they think oh go to your room but guess what there is pc and ps3 and other great things to do in a room so going to your room is not much of a punishment my mom raised my brother and I very differntly she said when he came along she was "too tired" with him and due to this didnt follow through with or be very hard on him with me my mom was strict and followed through on her punishments my mom never hit me but when my step dad got custody of us he did he beat the ***outa us my lil brother included now my lil bro took his dad srsly while he did not take my mom srsly when she said something so while yes it is easier to beat your kid to some people it doesnt make it the BETTER way. Not saying I dont think some kids deserve a smack in the mouth cause most of the little hooligans running around nowadays rly do deserve it... Like the girl at my work who told her mom "WHY DONT YOU DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE AND BUY ME SOME CLOTHES" if that was my kid I woulda smacked em in the mouth but then again her mom prolly spoils the shet outa her which is reason for her bratty attitude. anywho my basic point is make the punishment equal to the crime follow through with said punishment you dont neccesarily need to hit your kids ~.~ followthrough ppl it will do wonders lol XD
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:37:08
Ramuh.Vinvv said: maybe when darki gets older she will understand this......maybe. I basically had to become the man of the house at 13...
So... yeah hopefully.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:39:43
I'm glad I don't need to spit out my tragic life in order to make a point, I have had it hard too, and not because I'm a "Teen mom" be happy with knowing you're not the only one who has gone through worse than average things as a kiddo.
and yes now I can't sleep =) keep me company til my kid goes back to bed.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-01-07 22:41:56
lol
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:42:42
What really makes me sad is that my dad had already made plans for our family to visit Australia and for him and I to take a trip to Vietnam.
Vietnam was personal to him as he was in the air force during that war and really was looking forward to that trip. Even started to teach me how to ride a dirt bike (not sure what they use over there) or whatever they do over there.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:43:42
Phoenix.Darki said: I'm glad I don't need to spit out my tragic life in order to make a point, I have had it hard too, and not because I'm a "Teen mom" be happy with knowing you're not the only one who has gone through worse than average things as a kiddo.
and yes now I can't sleep =) keep me company til my kid goes back to bed. Don't you do exactly that often?(rhetorical question)
But do you really have to discredit what he says with "I've had it hard too, so your point doesn't count" remark?
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:44:07
well sorry to hear.
I thought you were what- 23-25? last time I recalled you didn't look or act old.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:44:49
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: I'm glad I don't need to spit out my tragic life in order to make a point, I have had it hard too, and not because I'm a "Teen mom" be happy with knowing you're not the only one who has gone through worse than average things as a kiddo.
and yes now I can't sleep =) keep me company til my kid goes back to bed. Don't you do exactly that often?(rhetorical question)
But do you really have to discredit what he says with "I've had it hard too, so your point doesn't count" remark? I don't spit out my tragic life nor have done it =) I did make the remark that I haven't had it easy either. Though I didn't go into details, geez vinvv, I thought you were smarter than that.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:45:01
Phoenix.Darki said: well sorry to hear.
I thought you were what- 23-25? last time I recalled you didn't look or act old. that's because this is an internet forum...can you not do simple math?
Phoenix.Darki said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: I'm glad I don't need to spit out my tragic life in order to make a point, I have had it hard too, and not because I'm a "Teen mom" be happy with knowing you're not the only one who has gone through worse than average things as a kiddo.
and yes now I can't sleep =) keep me company til my kid goes back to bed. Don't you do exactly that often?(rhetorical question)
But do you really have to discredit what he says with "I've had it hard too, so your point doesn't count" remark? I don't spit out my tragic life nor have done it =) I did make the remark that I haven't had it easy either. Though I didn't go into details, geez vinvv, I thought you were smarter than that. quit feigning that you are somehow more intelligent without the content to back it up silly girl :D
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By Bismarck.Xdudemanx 2011-01-07 22:45:30
Bismarck.Rinako said: When people say "discipline" people instantly think spankings. Most adults who don't believe in spanking fail on the discipline aspect of the matter which is why so many children in today's world are disrespectful and ignorant. I was disciplined as a child in various ways. I've even been hit, but did that low my IQ? Yeah, I wouldn't be on the Dean's List at my University if I was stupid I guess. It takes a lot of smarts to know how to raise a child, and many people don't know how to do it because they fail to know how to discipline a child. You don't have to beat your kid to get your point across but to some people that's what discipline is so they avoid trying any other form.
I've met some very stupid kids who have never been beat in their life, what's their excuse? Ohwait-- poor parenting is probably the best answer there. Some people will think a little smack isn't gonna hurt them while others will argue it's immoral. Some people will blame the lack of manners on lack of beatings and others will argue the "bad kids" need a better form of discipline. However, regardless of how you look at it-- any form of discipline is a sense of "abuse" if you want to throw out "hitting your kid is abuse!" thing. Mental abuse is just as fatal as physical abuse.
In any case, parents just need to know how to discipline their children. Displaying it all over the internet on what you do to your kids is probably not the best idea but hey not my problem. lol
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:47:09
Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: well sorry to hear.
I thought you were what- 23-25? last time I recalled you didn't look or act old. that's because this is an internet forum...can you not do simple math?
Phoenix.Darki said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: I'm glad I don't need to spit out my tragic life in order to make a point, I have had it hard too, and not because I'm a "Teen mom" be happy with knowing you're not the only one who has gone through worse than average things as a kiddo.
and yes now I can't sleep =) keep me company til my kid goes back to bed. Don't you do exactly that often?(rhetorical question)
But do you really have to discredit what he says with "I've had it hard too, so your point doesn't count" remark? I don't spit out my tragic life nor have done it =) I did make the remark that I haven't had it easy either. Though I didn't go into details, geez vinvv, I thought you were smarter than that. quit feigning that you are somehow more intelligent without the content to back it up silly girl :D
content? am I missing something here?
Do I need to QQQ all over the thread how my life has been so somehow I am "more" than anyone.
Apparently not.
"Nice try" though, wish I could give you a cookie for being a good kid.
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By Phoenix.Darki 2011-01-07 22:48:22
Oh wait this thread is turning just like every other thread in this forum. Geez, almost a month with out barely posting and nothing has changed around here. hmmmmm~
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-01-07 22:48:40
I know in multiple thread I've stated that I am 29, born 1981, etc.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-01-07 22:48:57
Phoenix.Darki said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: well sorry to hear.
I thought you were what- 23-25? last time I recalled you didn't look or act old. that's because this is an internet forum...can you not do simple math?
Phoenix.Darki said: Ramuh.Vinvv said: Phoenix.Darki said: I'm glad I don't need to spit out my tragic life in order to make a point, I have had it hard too, and not because I'm a "Teen mom" be happy with knowing you're not the only one who has gone through worse than average things as a kiddo.
and yes now I can't sleep =) keep me company til my kid goes back to bed. Don't you do exactly that often?(rhetorical question)
But do you really have to discredit what he says with "I've had it hard too, so your point doesn't count" remark? I don't spit out my tragic life nor have done it =) I did make the remark that I haven't had it easy either. Though I didn't go into details, geez vinvv, I thought you were smarter than that. quit feigning that you are somehow more intelligent without the content to back it up silly girl :D
content? am I missing something here?
Do I need to QQQ all over the thread how my life has been so somehow I am "more" than anyone.
Apparently not.
"Nice try" though, wish I could give you a cookie for being a good kid.
I bet you'd want to give me more than a cookie.
*winkwink*, keep trying to posture yourself with the dominant position, we all know it's not true.
delusions of grandeur aren't the best to have young lady.
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