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and pouring... something flammable on it? and lighting it?

I... Is it a magic trick?

At first I thought he was trying to melt the cheese, but when he also poured alcohol over the back of his hand, it felt more like he was trying to demonstrate how gaseous fuel is usually consumed first by a fire and in certain situations allows you to essentially set yourself on fire without much harm...

But honestly, it could be anything, dude *** up.

yup, looks like a cheese stick

I don't know what the *** I just listened to but this is not what I should be hearing under the words "Beautiful Loser."

He is peeling on of those cheese snack things open first right? Am I seeing that right?

I guess "act selfishly" is a better way to put it

or what they perceive to be in their best interest

your guess is as good as mine

what.... what is he even trying to do?

People rarely act in their own best interest...

My interest changes from day to day. It's best to assume my best interest is invested into whatever shiny thing I just found.

This is likely why I make a terrible relationship partner.

Ubisoft sale on steam... I don't think I'm buying in this time lol

Because Nier Automata doesn't have a Resolution/FPS lock on PC.

TL:DR: People dont always make the best decisions or have the best ideas.
point in case:

Which may not be the most unhealthy way to approach life.

But you have to consider that different people have different ideas of what their own best interest is.

I've just always had the belief that no matter what people will be acting in their own best interest and not my own, and that's how I typically imagine people I'm interacting with to be

especially Spath

What a perfectly catty response!

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someone wake me up when this wedding thing ends.

ill just sit in this corner eating cookies and napping on cat-couch

I'm coming straight out of compton



ok no but I'm coming at you straight from the future Jimbo!!!

I'm pushing fifty, been married for twenty five years, raised four kids to adulthood, I have been around the block a few times.

And here I am. and I'm telling you, from a lifetime of personal experiance dealing with people there are some simple truths.

people that break their word well they're word can't be trusted can it word breaking broken *** word breakers!!!

One could philosophize that they're one in the same person.

You're making a couple leaps in your logic to say that not trusting a person who has gotten a divorce is the same principle as not lending money to a gambler

I'm speaking in a grandiose fashion because I'm bored as ***.

All I'm really saying is don't rush into marriage. I think it happens entirely too frequently.

Definitely don't get married before 25 or so no matter how much you love someone.

There's medical and psychological evidence to back that up. You literally aren't the same person at 25 you were at 18. That age range is when things like psychoses and other psychological disorders tend to form. Which is where a lot of the "S/he turned into a different person!" comes from in people who wed young.

Well, major depressive disorder or schizophrenia will do that!

I've been with my wife since I was 15. But we were in our 30s before we were married. And I can tell you that while we're still together, that's a combination of a few things. The two primary things being 1) our childhood-to-adult brain changes happened to be compatible as they were in the first place (rare) and 2) we've always been willing to work through things. Luckily we don't have a lot of "things" to work through, but the happiest of marriages will have a few no matter what.

It's not that I would ever advise someone to not marry someone they love. I'd just advise someone to consider the difference between long-term relationships and marriage, and all the positive and negative consequences.

Same as anything else, really.

it's the exact same principle.

don't lend money to gamblers
never trust a junkie with anything you can't bear to lose

they're all simple concepts

Sure as hell sounds like you care if someone has gotten a divorce or not



This makes more sense, but what about people that used to drive drunk and have since reformed?

It actually sounds more like they're saying that people should think more about those types of possibilities before entering marriage to decide whether you can truly keep that promise if it does happen.

Neither of them are saying don't get married because people don't change, they're saying that people need to understand that people can and do change and that NOTHING is outside the realm of possibility. That people need to look more at themselves and the future and decide if they are truly ready for ANYTHING when it comes to that person/relationship and if not, then look towards a different route of having a "special relationship."

I don't care.

But I also won't believe anything anyone who has ever gotten a divorce tells me. People that get divorces are untrustworthy because they have no honor.

they made a promise. the biggest promise that can be made and they broke that promise. It doesn't matter how or why.

I also don't ride in cars with a driver that would ever drive drunk.

Because they are self centered *** that don't care about anyone else. So they sure as hell don't care about my safety, so I don't get in the car when they are driving

I mean sometimes it isn't exactly obvious that someone is going to become a *** cutter

Sometimes people who seem completely fine have problems under the surface and can seem to snap

Sometimes you can catch those things, but you might be in a relationship with someone for years before finally realizing that something is wrong with them

It sounds like you're saying that people basically shouldn't get married because "you never know", especially if getting divorced is such a big issue