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By Torzak 2022-11-05 16:56:04
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I've known him for years. I don't recall if he was a Carbuncle player originally, but I was, and that's where I first met him, though I don't recall the year, it was probably around 2008. I think a lot of us moved from Carby to Asura in 2017<?>.

I know for a lot of years, even after moving to Asura, he kept something in his bazaar that he asked me to craft and sign from when we were on Carby. I don't think it was even anything noteworthy, he just wanted something made by me.

He *just* waved to me on the game like yesterday or the day before? So this comes as some surprise as we hadn't talked much in the last couple years. I mean, we're all standing around AFK until we do our 30mins of this or hour of that these days.

Appreciate the share of info. It's a lot to think on. Never meet a person in RL and some news like this can still hit hard.

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By Asura.Otomis 2022-11-05 17:35:58
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I've played with Xerg over a year, super helpful and nice guy. Many blessing to him and his family. If you happen to have his Discord, send him some love.
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By RadialArcana 2022-11-05 17:59:13
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I don't really know him but I've seen him shouting quite often, very sad story. I hope for the best for him.
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By Asura.Kingdomhearts 2022-11-05 18:36:59
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Geez, very sorry to hear this. Met Zerg(as I originally knew him on Carby) around 2012 or so, during Abyssea. As I recall, Torzak, him, and me were in the same linkshell and while he got a lot of hate from different people(I confess I got frustrated with him a few times myself), he just kept on trucking, trying to get stuff done, not just for himself, but others too, always with the same line, "It's just a game lol".

Haven't really spoken with him much since leaving that LS years ago, but all the things Ahmed said about how he helped LS members and other people with clears sounds exactly like him. And a lot of times when he threw something together, yeah he'd fail. But he always laughed it off, never allowed it to bother him, and just tried again, using the jobs that people had, not just what was most efficient, always wanting to give everybody a chance to enjoy the content the game had to offer.

He went the distance to get me a few of the harder to get Atmas(back then) and even put more then his fair share into helping me get Kannagi, my first REMA back then(and if you read this Zerg, it's 119v3 and while it's not best-in-slot, I proudly refuse to replace it, so thank you).

Prays are going out to him, his son, and his family in general to get them through these hard times, and I look forward to seeing him online again when he gets this beaten(because if the haters couldn't stop him, I doubt this will, he'll keep on trucking).
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By Asura.Warmoose 2022-11-06 00:28:43
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Very colorful and interesting person if you've been on discord with him lol

Ive been in and out of his LS and used it as a social, and he really does just help the new player base and expects nothing in return. I remember vagary being his thing to run, and dynamis.

Wishin him a speedy recovery and good treatment plan
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By Cerberus.Darkvlade 2022-11-06 07:41:20
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Sorry to hear, prayers to him and family
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By Bismarck.Nickeny 2022-11-06 09:20:17
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Don't know him but if he was one of my ffxi friends I would be heartbroken...

I hope he pulls through...
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By Asura.Houndsoflove 2022-11-07 19:49:59
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One of the good ones on Asura. Can't say anything that hasn't already been said about him, so best wishes.
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By Asura.Kingdomhearts 2022-11-12 17:41:25
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Really appreciate the updates ~!
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By Slowforever 2022-11-12 19:00:20
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Tarzan (carbuncle) sends his condolences <3 Sin separates us from God, Jesus saves - Get well soon.
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By Asura.Alvinho 2022-11-17 05:48:00
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Done quite a few Vagary runs with him; I think he does weekly shouts. Seemed like a nice guy.

Wishing him the best.
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By Dazusu 2022-11-27 11:07:18
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Is it only me that finds it weird this guy's life and health struggles are being played out on FFXIAH in such detail?
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By Melfiee 2022-11-27 16:55:13
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I’m with you. I think he and his ffxi friends are lacking attention?
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By Thunderjet 2022-11-29 13:36:19
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Dazusu said: »
Is it only me that finds it weird this guy's life and health struggles are being played out on FFXIAH in such detail?
i did actually blacklsit him once he was very obnoxious and trolling, i will let it pass tho think i asked him if i can come PLD/WAR for an ambu run and he kept spaming me PLD/WAR go /blu i feel like 99% of the players dont know how ambuscade hate works
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By Asura.Bluespoons 2022-11-29 15:30:25
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Ahmed35 said: »
Be nice


Dazusu said: »
Is it only me that finds it weird this guy's life and health struggles are being played out on FFXIAH in such detail?

They didn't say anything that wasn't nice. While it's nice that there are updates for his friends and people that care, I'd be incredibly upset if someone took it upon themselves to share this many details about my struggles on a forum. Even if you have his permission, some people still feel it's odd. They're allowed that feeling.
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By Dazusu 2022-11-29 19:36:37
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Ahmed35 said: »
ouch Dazusu did that? i mean his harsh comment did display lack of empathy.

No, Dazusu didn't do that. I don't build ambuscade groups to begin with ^_^

My comment was not harsh, it was an observation and question.
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By dontclickme 2022-11-29 23:49:13
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his comment didn't show a lack of empathy. if anything, it was more empathetic suggesting that you should have considered whether or not this particular individual wanted his personal struggles to be publicized.

i'm getting a "thoughts and prayers" vibe from this.
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